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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

Should I stay with my wife or go with the woman who has always been there for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - I have a situation that i think if i talked about it maybe it might help. I got married in 96 to a woman i thought was everything to me,she had a child of her own from a previous relationship. i didn't mind that at all. We had our 1st child a year ...

Do I tell my married friend I want more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Married friend really not happy with her relationship.Staying for the two children age ten and twelve. Should I tell her that I would like to be more than friends or just leave it? I feel shes interested in me also but neither of us would agree in ...

13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...

She tells me she has an std, and then blames me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Dear cupid, I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she'...

I keep straying to other men.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i am married for the second time and have four children i love my husband he is 1 in a million, but i cant stop straying to different men, i dont no what to do i think about it all the time, what can i do?...

Do I move back in with my ex, or will it just make things worse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I am in financial dire straits. Going throu a divorce. Ex Boyfriend has offered my kids and I a place to stay. I don't want to exchange one problem for another. I am currenlty temping. Not making enough to see to my basics. Debts are piling ...

She's 19, married, and wants to give her husband a 2nd chance.. But I want her to be mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Ever have this feeling, if so what'd you do? met a girl, she's everything i'd ever want... our chemistry is amazing, like we were meant for each other... we make each other happy... but she's 19, no kids, married and is gonna give him anot...

Can I legally move out of state with my kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I am thinking about moving to a different state with my children to "start over". The problem is that my husband and I are only separated, not divorced yet. He is abusive but I have never legally filed a complaint against him. Can I legally leave ...

Is it a good idea when we marry to have our own bank accounts and have a joint account intended for all of our household budgets/emergency purposes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - im in a relationship for a year now, my bf is great, he is intelligent and very responsible. One night while we're having dinner in a restaurant by the beach we've talked about bank accounts, anyway were both had a good salary from our works. the ...

My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I ...

I don't know how to handle marriage anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Early in our marriage, getting way too challenging, don't know how to handle it anymore. We met in grad school, only dated for just over a year before getting married. We had (I thought) very similar goals in our careers, and we both liked the s...

Is "living together for the kids" possible... ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - i have been going through a really difficult time with my husband and have tried everything to sort it out and have come to the conclusion that there is no point on trying anymore.the dilema is neither of us can afford to move out does anyone think ...

The phone rang after we had just finished sex. Was it ridiculous for me to want to answer the phone? Or for my husband to be hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My husband and I had just finished sex. The phone rang, and I answered it. My husband said it ruined the moment, and I should have let the answering machine pick it up and was really hurt. More info: *I didn't have to get up to answer the pho...

I asked him to leave home, but how do I go on without knowing where he is, while our children are confused and hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I am writing this to you to ask for advise regarding my relationship with my husband, my husband and i have had a rough go of it and more recently i had asked him to leave our home. he left our home about a month ago, five weeks ago, he has ...

I say I love you and he doesn't say it back anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I love my husband very much but yesterday I got angry with him (it was not unprovoked) and I said something truly horrible to him. I really went below the belt. We have been having problems for a long time and they are not helped by circumstances ...

Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...

We are drifting apart, but I am getting closer to a female friend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. Over the past year especially she has been becoming distant. I wirk alot and she complains that I am never home. I tried to change that this summer. I am usually home by 6 or 7. However anytime I ...

Too much too late?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Have been married 18 yrs and 3 kids 17, 15, 11, last few years Ive been unhappy. I finnaly told husband I wasnt happy and I dont have the same feelings for him. Now he is trying to change over night and do things he has never done, do dished, ...

How do I change my resurfaced feelings about a wonderful wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (?) - How do I change my resurfaced feelings about a wonderful wife? I hope I can keep this short, but it is complicated. I would love to hear comments from people like Mandy7 and happytochat. My wife and I were both once divorced. Both of us had had only...

He doesn't want me anymore, but I don't think I can live without him! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I had a relationship of 11 years. During 10 years we were very happy. Two years ago we bought a house. Then I wanted to marry. My boyfriend would not. And we couldn't talk about it so one year ago I left my him. We worked about a year on our r...

Do I go back to my abusive, alcoholic husband or stay away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I've been seeking advise as to how I should handle my situation. My husband is an alcoholic and over the past two years has become verbally and physically abusive, not to mention controlling. The majority of advice I have received is to leave him ...

Do you think what I did was cheating?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have been married for 14 years and a year ago my best friend and I had too much to drink and we kissed for less then 2 minutes(female). I told my husband yesterday and he said I cheated so it's over. Do you think that is cheating?...

Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...? I have been married 13 years, three kids. Back when dating my wife and I went over pretty detailed things about our sexual past. Names, places, how it took place and so on....

Do you think he will ever leave her as they don't see that much of each other or am I just wasting my time hoping he will.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - A couple of months ago I met someone who I later found out to be married to a woman in Thailand, he works in England for over half the year and stays with her for the rest, he lives very close to me and we see each other a lot. He said he does love ...

He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He sai...

My husband has E.D. and I don't want to divorce just b/c of a bump in the road! Please help me with my marriage.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I am a 48 year old women, have been married for 27 years and my husband has never been a romantic type. but since he has been diagnois as a diabectic 7 years ago he has E.D. and are relationship has been strained. I love my husband, but i am not in ...

Is love at first sight true? Ready to sacrifice everything to be together, though I'm married and know this person for a month.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - I am a 47 year old male with a professional job and have been married for 16 years. About a month ago I met a 39 year old female hispanic woman who speaks some english and we can hold conversations very well at a conference. She is also married for ...

Still in love with the ex and have been seeing him behind my husband's back. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid... Have I got a problem.. I was living with someone for 10 years, we had two daughters and a horrible relationship. We were young and naive and ended up seperating. Then right away I started seeing the man who is now my husband of 3 ...

I think my wife wants to try saving the marriage but her friend is pushing her back to the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - my and my wife were trying to save our marrige so she left her bf for me, a week later she back with him after i walked in on them. she will not talk to me about it 5 days later, all she has said is that she loves me but not in the way i want as ...

What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...

I think my husband is involved with his sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I Think my husband is involved with his sister!! She was living with us and caused a lot of arguments between us such as butting in on our finances and everything. my baby son started callin her mama she would get happy! They would always be ...

She had another man's child, I had transexual sex, she won't come near me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - People get curious and try different thing I totally understand that and can accept it. My wife of 10 years just had a baby after the baby was born I found out it was not mine. We are both white and she had a black baby wow what a shocker. She ...

How do I dirty up my married sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - I want to be really dirty and do dirty things during sex w/ my husband but we're both too shy. When we first started sleeping together I was drunk, and I had him talk dirty to me, and I let loose. Now I am pregnant (again) so I feel really ...

My wife became depressed after having our first child. She has now met new male friends over the internet. Is there a cause for concern here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married three years and we've had a great relationship. She was recently depressed after having our first child and turned to the internet to find happiness. She has new male friends, should I be concerned? She told me she ...

I don't feel the same love for my wife that I once did and I feel like I want to have sex with more women. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

21 September 2007 (M) - I've been with my wife for nearly 3 years now. We have a 9 month old baby girl who i love to pieces. However i'm just not happy with my life. I don't find my wife attractive, we get on ok but i don't feel the same love for her that i once did....

How would any of you feel if your spouse never talked to you? Is it wrong for me to want out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - How would any of you feel if your spouse never talked to you? Been married a number of years to a man who never opens up. He's kind to me, he provides for me, but I never feel close to him and it's getting harder to have sex with him because we ...

Why wouldn't he want to tell his family about our wedding? He makes me feel like he was forced into this marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - my boy friend(hubby) and i went to new york city hall to register for marriage more than a month ago. legally we're married, and we're hoping to have a formal make-up wedding next year when we're more financially stable. before we registered, i...

If I go back he will continue his torture, if I stay back society will blame me, so what should I do to end the abuse in my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6271 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Iam having troubled life for the past seven years, my first marriage was a dissaster there was dowry problem, i was physically abused, i kept quiet for a long time for my parents sake. basically i am a shy person and closed person who would like...

I think I have fallen for my wife's sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - i have fallen in love with my wife's sister. i think she feels the same way for me. should i tell her how i feel about her or just keep this to myself?...

My husband and I are too shy to kiss each other! This shouldn't be an issue - we're married!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - This is kind of embarassing to ask. My husband and I (married last weekend) are too shy to kiss! We kissed when the minister said kiss the bride, but before then it had been like a year since we kissed last..He is not the initiating type at all, and ...

I'm dating a married man who cheated on me! His wife refuses to divorce him and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What can i do now? I am a 26 year old girl, pretty and independent. My college boyfriend left me when I went abroad for my further degree. I had another boyfriend two years after I came back to the country, but i found he married, he cheated on m...

I'm in love w/ someone other than my abusive husband - but I'm unsure about his actions, as well! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have a husband for 14 years. I loved him and was totally dutiful when i got married as arranged by my parents. He beat me sometimes on account of fights and left me helpless. I got fedup and promised to throw him out of my feelings but didnt ...

He quit watching porn for me, but he still is cheating on me by pleasuring himself! Is there any hope left for my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I am having major problems with my husband, been married for 29 years, I found out he was watching porn behind my back, he said he would stop, I caught him again a few months later, he was ashamed and promised he would stop, since then I haven't ...

Should I tell my wife's friend that I love her so I know whether or not to stay w/ my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I love my wife but I am also in love with her friend. I would give everything i have to be with her friend and don't know whether i should tell her that i have fallen for her. Will she tell my wife, would i be better to tell her to clear my thoug...

I danced w/ my brother-in-law before my husband at our wedding - now my guy is all upset! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I was married 5 days ago and on our wedding night I danced with his brother before I did my husband. He is all upset and has not talked to me since. I have told him I am sorry but it doesnt seem to matter. What should I do?...

I'm living in hell by staying with my husband for our kids - please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I need advise and opions. Have you ever been in a bad relatioship where you feel as though you're under-loved, never missed and he could care less? What do you do when you feel yourself slowly falling out of love more each and every day? ...

Divorced Guys! If your divorce was terrible and she put you through hell...would you remarry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6272 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Divorced Men! If your divorce was terrible and she put you through hell... would you remarry? I am dating a guy who says he would not remarry because of all he went through- but....?!?...

My wife is always putting me down. Sometimes I hate her, But I love her, if that makes sense. What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) - ok here you go: I am married with children. Love my kids to death. I love my wife, but not as a wife. That may sound confusing, but let me explain. She is not a nice person at all, she constantly downs me and talks to me like I'm meaningless...

We live in a really high crime and polluted area b/c my husband doesn't want to quit his job! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I hate where my husband and I live. I've lived here all my life (I'm 25) and my husband (24) moved here about 6 years ago. It's been fine up until the last several years. Now, for some reason, everything about this place is taking a dive. We b...

I don't think he cheated, but I'm still insecure b/c of two incidents that occurred w/ him and other women! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - The long and the short of it is this... I have been with my husband for over 8 years. In the beginning we were both young and immature and both of us did some things that weren't totally "kosher" but nothing serious or abnormal - harmless flirting ...