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writes:A couple of months ago I met someone who I later found out to be married to a woman in Thailand, he works in England for over half the year and stays with her for the rest, he lives very close to me and we see each other a lot. He said he does love his wife, but has fallen in love with me and wishes he never got married but can't leave her for fear of what his family will think. He has known her 4 years but only married for 8 months, he is due to go see her for a month then coming home for more work. He says he can't see me anymore because he feels guilty lying to his wife, but is also scared that he will miss me and ring me when he gets home... Do you think he will ever leave her as they don't see that much of each other or am I just wasting my time hoping he will. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): Well, dear, if you find an answer to this, please let me know. I am in a similar situation but longer absences and we are here in the States, also there is a baby in Thailand as well. I think we pretty much just have to walk away, stand back, and see what happens between them. I will not be a homebreaker, but loving a married man is very difficult, especially when he regrets his marriage.
I personally would never let my husband live so far away for such a long time, as sex is an elemental need with the longing for warmth and intimacy. Anyone else out there, take that as a warning, there are always loving arms for a lonely man, and no one person can fulfill all needs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): He might but keep out of it until he has made a proper decision and left. Don't get involved in others marriages give them chance to sort it out one way or the other. You are just as much to blame if he is cheating with you If he wants you he will leave her for you. Leave him and see what happens but don't waste your time if he strings both along.
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