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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Am I too old school or he has boundary issues?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I am having some issues in my relationship, and I don’t know if its due to boundaries issues or me being old school. I grew up with a lot of guys, I get along with guys better than girls, but I have female friends ...

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making pla...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

My girlfriend's told me she's not willing to be with me if I follow the career path I think I want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4387 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - To give you guys a little bit of background, I'm a student at uni deciding on my career options. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been throughout my time at uni. We met at high school, fell in love and have been with each other ever ...

LDR--I always have to call and its costing me a fortune!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I am in a Long distance relationship for over a year , but I do most of the calling by telephone and it is costing me a fortune ! He waits on me to call . I have now decided to not call for a couple of days to see if he can be more assertive . ...

Does he actually not like me and is he showing me that by pretty much ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for several months, we broke up for 6 months and I saw him again and we reconnected. It was what seemed a fresh start where we talked about how we hoped to have a future together. But he is in the military and got stationed on the...

I do love him... but do I love him enough to be with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4385 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I'm so depressed and have no zest for living anymore. I just feel so alone and stupid.... I'm 22 years old, and i recently broke up with my bf (28) after 2 and half years. My bf/ex was working in the states alone for the whole of our relationshi...

Is this just a rebound move on my part, considering I only just broke up with my Gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - Hey- This may be a bit silly, but I was just wondering and I wanted to know what everyone thought. My girlfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me out of nowhere about a month ago (there was distance, and a lot of outside circumstanc...

Was he fake or for real?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I'd appreciate some thoughts on this situation. Recently on a business holiday, I met a man in fairly unusual circumstances. We clicked instantly. There was a very strong attraction both physical and spiritual. I think it kind of shocked us both ...

Do I choose to love the one I'm with? Or the exLDR who loves me but doesn't want an LDR again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. Any answers at all are so appreciated! I have been in an LDR for 2 years now. It's working fine. Before my current boyfriend I had a different LDR but with a guy who I had never met. I broke up with this guy before we got to mee...

I'm at my wits end. Help! what should I do. The Laptop gets more attention than me in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, well my problem is this.... For the last two years since ive been with my bf he has been constantly working on his laptop to make a computer game (not so much in the first few months) It's his dream to make it big and i support hi...

Would it seem desperate to visit a guy in another state that I have only met once?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - A few weeks ago, I took a weekend trip with some friends to a city a few hours away from where we live. They had a conference to attend so I mostly spent the weekend exploring the city on my own. The night before we returned home, I ran...

Struggling with my long distance relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I am struggling with a long distance relationship. I adore the guy I am in a relationship with but as a single mother, divorced I feel I miss the contact and emotional closeness when we are apart. We have been together a year and I do most of the ...

How can I change my boyfriend's lifestyle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - hi aunts and everyone! i just need some advice! im in a long distance with my boyfriend around 1 year now! we're really far from each other he lives in another country, here's the thing, i know my boyfriend, he's such a hard working person, he's so ...

How to put the spark back into a relationship that is long distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I need some direction back to the less travelled path of loyalty, honesty, and love. I'm lesbian... have been with my lesbian girlfriend for three years. I'm a very emotionally needy person. I need to be contacted every day: emailed, phoned, texted, ...

I broke up with her but realised I made a mistake, how do I get her back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a long distance relationship for the past 5 months and it's been a little difficult since we've only been seeing each other once a month, and recently started seeing each other 2X per month. We also have been chatting an...

Should I trust my LDR girlfriend? She grinds with other guys

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - I recently started dating a girl at the school I just graduated from. It's a semi-long distance relationship; thus far we've been able to see each other at least once a month, if not more. However, there are times when we are apart. I trust her ...

What hope is there for us? We can't be together right now and we fight weekly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4404 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - We saw each other for 5 months, then separated because of distance, continued LDR on and off for 3 months and then finally ended it because she wasn't ready and have never since tried to be friends. I've tried numerous times to just leave her b...

Am I too controlling for wanting to help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - Hello all, I was curious to get a second opinion on a situation. Now my girlfriend is notoriously for procrastinating, motivating herself, forgetting to do important things, and is very lazy, to the point where if I ask about something she was supp...

LDR: how do I determine if I'm being played?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have a question about a 'relationship' I'm in. I am sort of seeing a guy, I say sort of for reasons I'll explain in this question. I met him while I was visiting a friend abroad. I ended up having what I thought to be a one night stand, he ...

Confused about what he feels about our long distance relationship stance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - hi aunts, im in a long distance relationship now were 1 year as couple and we been friends for 3 years now! hes in australia and im in philippines, I met him through my friend when he visited here in the phil! so since then we talk every day, skype ...

Are long distance relationships/friendships really THAT bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - For the record, I AM not in a LDR. I'm asking this because I constantly see people bashing long distance relations. Or when somebody says that they have a friend online, people immediately think the worst. I have been in LDRs when I was in 6th to 9...

I feel so guilty about crushing on this girl at Uni who may or may not be gay. Especially considering that I have a LDR Gf who I adore. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4405 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - This is going to sound really messed up but ever since I started uni I have had a huge crush on a girl that works at the uni who has a really gay vibe about her. She dresses quite butch, but I have a feeling she's straight because I've seen her arou...

She was the ONE. Her family did not like me. Losing her has destroyed me. So now, why can't I get another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4404 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Why can't I get another girl? In high school pretty girls liked me but let me stress that I was not very good at talking to them like I'm okay but not great. I relied on sports and my looks and once I knew a girl liked me I would go talk to her. ...

I cheated on my LDR boyfriend. Do I tell him or just end things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

20 October 2012 (F) - I cheated on my long distance boyfriend. I got so lonely waiting around for him to return home. The relationship more or less is dead. Do I tell him or do I just break up? I feel so guilty. ...

LDR equals dead end relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

20 October 2012 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are in a long distance relationship. We have been for the last two years. I'm starting to miss being with her. We're both 18 and I think I'm wasting some of the best years of my life in a deadend relationship. Is it time to end ...

I feel my girlfriend is rushing our relationship. 6 months and a LDR and she's talking of marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

19 October 2012 (M) - I have been dating this girl long distance of 6 months now, and we are planning to move in together in 2 months. She has had many more sexual partners and failed relationships as well as a marriage when she was still young. Where as this is my first ...

Is he just being nice? Or does he have a crush on me? he talks about sex a bit. My friend says he tricked me into a date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

18 October 2012 (F) - This guy at school is being really nice to me, and I've started feeling things for him. He just naturally makes me brighter and I can't stop smiling around him. But, I'm not sure if he's just being nice or he's being flirty. A week ago, he wen...

We aren't together because of distance but she's still talking to her ex. Where do I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4409 days ago

17 October 2012 (M) - We met abroad, 9 months ago. We were together and seeing each other for 5, and we have been separated for 4 as we live in different countries and are finishing our last year of university. I fell in love with her, and I want to be with her after I...

How can I get over someone I still love? And did I make a terrible mistake?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

17 October 2012 (M) - Hi all Ive been with my partner for four years now- its been a distance relationship..seeing each other weekends only and it has not always an easy thing. But we have had amazing times. Neither of us were willing to give up good jobs that w...

How do I proceed with a lady who has panic attacks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship with a young lady who I had met online. This lady(let's call her Julia) had been raped and confined for 18 hours so she had issues. I visited her in July for the first time and things went quite well but u...

Long distance and little effort

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for 3 months. Now we are long distance. I suddenly had a job meeting in her city so I took a flight and got suddenly there. Upon leaving I told her I was coming. She said she was busy but she ll try to see me that night, ...

What are my chances with this girl from another country in an LDR and despite her family and her health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I am 43 and live in ,Greece I met A from another country online on Facebook in February 2012. We had common musical tastes and met in a group dedicated to such music. After a few initial messages on FaceBook, we became closer and closer. At so...

Is ALMOST cheating, cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm in a very confusing dilemma with my boyfriend at the moment, and I'm afraid to talk to my friends about it because if we do stay together, I don't want them to think badly of him. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relations...

I am starting to think that maybe it was obvious from the start But 'does this guy like me?

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14 October 2012 (F) - Ok, I've known him for a good 3 years now. He's from another country and is a friend of a friend who works for my family. When I met him I didn't think much , just aw yea another good looking, cocky fella. I didn't see him that often but he wo...

He phones me then hangs up. What do you think? Do you think he's playing a game to see how much I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

14 October 2012 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend broke up with me this past May. He is a Marine stationed across the country from where I'm attending college. Since January he had been begging me to give up my senior year in college, move to his base and marry him. I o...

Four months absence. Some tips please on how to look amazing for him when he returns and we go on a date together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

13 October 2012 (F) - I have a boyfriend who has been to america and is home next week. I havent seen him for 4 months as thats how long he goes away for. On his first night back when i will be first seeing him we have arranged to go out for a meal and then onto the...

Does he take me for granted? Am I not a Priority in his life? NO birthday present from him either!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

12 October 2012 (F) - Hi all, I need a little help trying to decipher my boyfriend's behaviour over the weekend. We have been together for 6 months and are in a long distance relationship. He is sweet and has had a tough year with his dad dying and moving house a...

There's trouble in our relationship. Can it be fixed? Or is there too much to solve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4415 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - WE are about a year together but last 3 month has changed everything with my boyfriend, before he was without job,last 4 month he start a new job but when that happened he became less active with me ,we talked everyday text every day, said to each ...

Boyfriend moving away - again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - I need advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and recently he got a job 2 hrs away from the city. He asked me to move with him and it was lucky enough that I could transfer offices. So I've been living in a new town for 2 months with ...

In a relationship. Is this flirting or being friendly, and is it wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

10 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend of nearly 4 years. I am from australia last night out of nowhere, the singer of one of my favorite bands (an american band who are quite famous and have played shows in australi...

Should I consider taking him back? He's been a player and he wants me back, but he's not doing it the right way to interest me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I really do need your help everyone. I broke up with my first Love 7 months ago. We were going on 2 years. We had a very serious LDR and marriage was always talked about. He introduced me to his family and friends as his wife not even his girlfri...

Things have got out of control, One minute it's good and then Boom he deleted me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - hello! I’m in a very difficult situation. Let me start from the bringing. My cousin's friend told my cousin he liked me, but I currently had a boyfriend so he didn’t pursue it, after me and my bf broke up, I got his number and we started texting,...

My LDR of 4 years wants to break up when we are set to move in within a month! Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

8 October 2012 (M) - We've been in a long distance relationship for 4 and half years now , and in 1 month I could finally move in with her and we could start our lifes together , even yesterday we were planning what car we should get etc. (she is Norwegian I am ...

We've went on dates I really like him but he told a woman on facebook he loved her after she said it to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

8 October 2012 (F) - There's a guy I went on a few dates with and I like him very much. I feel like we are a good match and he does indeed seem into me, only thing is our distance is definitely a challenge. We are friends on Facebook and for some reason, ALL of his ...

How should I go about telling him how I feel without being pushy about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4418 days ago

8 October 2012 (F) - This is a long distance situation.We have known each other for almost a year and we went on a date about a month ago. In the beginning when we met, I was vocal about wanting to talk to him on the phone and he said he'd call but it never happened. ...

How can I regain his trust for the second time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4419 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - Guys I logged on to the dating website were we met, but I never open up a account. The 1st time it happened, he forgave me, but this 2nd time he told me he could never forgive me and I lost him. I had no intentions in dating anyone on that site ever ...

2 month LDR has lost its spark

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

7 October 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two months now. Is long distance but I still get to see him on the holidays and I completely trust him. The problem is that he's been really distant, like he texts me every other day and doesn't ...

Am I stuck? Still in love with him, but not happy with him. What to do about my long term Bf ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been with each other since I was 16 and he was 17. We are now 20 and 21. Our whole relationship has been long distance. We've been flying back and forth to make things work. Since he has a fulltime job I hvae done most o...

He's in love with me and his ex-girlfriend. Is it understandable that I am not feeling as comfortable as before? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4421 days ago

5 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have, what we and everyone else call the perfect relationship. Both of our last two relationships were not good. We were always the calm, rational one being yelled at, griped at, fought with, argued with, exploded on etc. O...