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*exybabe13
writes:So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two months now. Is long distance but I still get to see him on the holidays and I completely trust him. The problem is that he's been really distant, like he texts me every other day and doesn't respond to my texts. I just feel like we lost our spark. How do I get it back ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2012): hi there,this is rather difficult if you're so far away,distant relationship's break down usually because you miss the person so much and your so far away that you can't see eachother,Maybe he just need's some more heart to heart talk,don't ever give up on someone you love that goes a fair way if you are willing to give up anything for him/her :) keep your head up sweety and keep smiling sunshine,ray's of light will shine on you and faith will spring your way.
There are time's in our live's that are difficult...but never give up hope.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (7 October 2012):
 Also, you can trust one another and also talk all the time, but for someone who needs to look in your eyes and touch you, it may not be enough. My boyfriend could have called me everyday, sent 100 care packages, emails, and whatever, but what I wanted was to look in his eyes and touch him.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (7 October 2012):
I agree that long-distance relationships are hard, and some people simply are not made to endure them. I would talk to your boyfriend and tell him what you're said here. It may be that he misses you more than he thought he would and rather than feel the hurt, is now shutting down. At least, that is what happened to me when I was in an LDR in college. I simply lost the emotional connection with my boyfriend and basically did not care anymore. I mean, I cared, but I didn't...if you understand what I am saying. What happens is that you care so much and miss the person so much, but you know there is nothing you can do about it, so you shut down.
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