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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

I cheated on my LDR g/f, am ready to end things but how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I have been dating the same girl for three years, but we recently broke up to give each other distance. We still talk everyday and act like a couple, yet I made out with a new girl I met the other day.it was a one time thing and I feel absolutely ...

Is he just waiting for someone better to come along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months long distance. Only see him about once a month. He did at one point want me to move with him but then after a few arguments he decided against it. He says he still loves me, but he never texts or calls ...

So much promise. And now nothing? How do I handle my online friend? was he ever genuine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I have been chatting with a guy online and via web com and mobile almost everyday for a month. The guy got so much into me and he swore and made me believe him that we have future this and that. He wanted to come to see me to the UK as he lives in...

I'd love to win my ex back, but then part of me would love to move on from her once and for all. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - Ok, I'll start with one thing: it was a long distance relationship. We met on the Saint Valentine's day in 2011 and had some amazing time together. She's from Canada and she was amazed by Russia, and I happened to be from Russia. It was all nice ...

I'm moving back home and leaving my love behind, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - so im a foreign exchange student. and im here in the usa for one year. im coming back to my home country in a month. and i dont want to, because i met an amazing person here. i ve never ever met anybody like him. i feel so wonderful when i am with ...

I broke up with him in a moment of anger and now I want him back, how do I make him understand I want to make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Hi,i was wondering if anyone could help me. Ive been in a long distance relationship for two years now, everything was great, were in love and then one night we got inna fight and after he apoligized to me he starting to be a real *dick over the ...

B/f blocked me because I complained about his activity with ex on facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and i hve been in a long distance relationshp for 6months now things have been ohkay but recently we fight a lot over his ex galfriend who calls now and than,and i told my bf that i hate it when the ex calls,he said he cant tel someone ...

Why do guys in long distance relationships not try harder?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - we've been together for 4 years..2 of them in a long distance relationship..i love him very very much...and i know that he loves me too...he never never doubted that we will get married etc..but lately it seems like i'm the only one that wants to ...

In love with girl who is in a long distance relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4592 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - Hi guys, I currently have 2 years left of school, and at the beginning of this year, I completely fell in love, for the first time, head over heels for a new girl who is from Japan and has come over to my school for 3 years to study English an...

She's in Florida, I'm in Canada, can we make it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

26 May 2012 (M) - I know I'm only 17 years old but I met this girl on YouTube four years ago and ever since then.. my feelings have been getting very profound... I am doubly sure she reciprocates as I recall asking her if she'd ever date me... to which the answer was ...

It's great when we're together, but when we're apart I question the relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2582 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 years. I know he’s the one because we click. Yesterday he took me to the lake and we had a picnic. He told me I stole his heart and he always wants me to keep it. He is just about the nicest guy I have ...

Should I ask if we are exclusive? Will he run for the hills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope someone out there can give me some advice on a lil problem i have. Ok here it goes. I met a guy at Halloween 2011 at a house party. We hit it off by talking for a few hours and he asked for my number. I didnt expect him to co...

I've been corresponding with a well known porn star

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - Hey all! I've been in touch with a rather well-known porn star as of late via email. She heard one of my latest mixes I posted on twitter, emailed my friend about how to get in touch with me, and she told me she really liked what I did so she off...

He's basically said that when I leave in 3 months, our relationship is over. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I met a guy 7months ago whilst on a gap year. He's 8 years older than me and we live near each other back home (about 500km)... We started dating straight away and moved together after 3 months (hasty I know but as we're both here temporar...

How can I move to Canada?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - Hi, I live in pakistan but I have a girlfriend that lives in Canada. I want to move to Canada but I am only a 19 so it is difficult to find a way to come here. Is there anyway I can move to Canada without being sponsored, or having a high enough i...

He is dating his close friend. Do I still have hope??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (now ex) and I were having a long distance relationship (he's in europe i'm in asia). And things were hard especially since we are 20 and 21 and we are in college. meeting up is always hard. He had made facebook friends with a girl in ...

I can't get rid of the feeling, I'm feeling gross and ashamed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - i am a straight guy who is in a long distance relationshp with the prettiest girl in the world..but due to some reasn..my gf and i cant talk everyday..its been 3 weeks since i talkd to her.today on omegle..i came across a bisexual horny guy.and he ...

How do I tell this depressed man that the relationship is over and has been over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - I happen to be in a happy, committed relationship with a really nice man. No problems there. The problem is that I used to be in an LDR with a man about two years ago. After we met, I realised that we weren't compatible and that there was no way it ...

Girlfriend keeps breaking up with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

19 May 2012 (M) - So I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 2 years. I currently live in Florida and she lives in Arizona. To make the long story short this relationship has been through so many ups and downs. She is bipolar and when I first met her ...

Is he just making excuses? Or is there something I can do to make this work?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

18 May 2012 (F) - I met this guy while I was looking for no one {still burnt after the last one}- we were both waiting to take an exam at our Uni, he started talking to me and we got along well, so he left me his email. For the following couple of months, we wrote ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that I'm moving away and wont be coming back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

17 May 2012 (F) - Iv been in a relationship with a guy for some months now, we started dating when we were schooling together. We are happy together but the problem is, i have moved to a different country and i dont think i'll be returning due to some pesonal issues. ...

My partner as just started army training.. Does this get any easier?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

17 May 2012 (F) - Iv been with my partner for 2 months now and before we got together we spoke loads and he told me he had applied for the army. I told him I would stick by him with whatever decision he makes. He went to army training and has been there a week and ...

LDR with not much support and Low communication

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

16 May 2012 (M) - I like a girl which I met at the Superdome in Leyte, Phils. Currently, I live in Iloilo City... We are far from each other.... And I really really want to make something between us... Even though... We just met a month ago and we dont have muc...

How do I make my girlfriend more ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

15 May 2012 (M) - Okay, so I am in love with my girlfriend and plan to spend the rest of my life with her. I am third year in college and she is in college as well. However, this is a long distance relationship. She is still a virgin and I am not. We say I love you ...

Am I in the wrong here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

15 May 2012 (F) - Hi there I need to know whether I am in the wrong here?? I was seeing a guy last november and it probably lasted a few months, until he was offered a job abroad (new zealand) on a contract for a year and a half. We had been friends before for a ...

When I was reluctant to de-flower her she seemed to turn off me. I love her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

14 May 2012 (M) - i love this girl...we met online and started dating for over one year... i told her everything about myself on how i left my rich and balanced family to live in a tough place, because of the problem i have with my dad... she accepted me. Then one d...

I worry that she compares me with her ex. Will she have a memory of her 'best sex' with her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

13 May 2012 (M) - I have a great girlfriend and we get along really well. Everything is going along perfectly and we really see a future together. Currently we are long distance as we are seperated for the summer, and my mind is giving me some troubles. I was a v...

Divorce or go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

12 May 2012 (M) - Hey I need some advice, I think I don't see my relationship in a healthy way because I am in the middle of it. Anyway, I am a 32 year old man, living in Sweden, married to a 28 year old foreign lady. We've never lived together, but we where pla...

I need some feedback please on what it'll be like for my Gf if I join the marines?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

11 May 2012 (M) - I'm 26 my girlfriend is 21. We're doing quite well together, going on 2 years. I've been wanting to join the Marine Corps for a few years now. I have a son with my ex and I want him to have someone to look up to. My current job not only isn't ...

The distance is ruining our marriage, should I keep trying to work on the marriage or give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

11 May 2012 (F) - we live two cities apart and we have been married for 4 years. during all this period i have been the one calling everyday and he only calls when i complain about it.I have been neglecting him since our son was born 3years ago, he says it’s because ...

How can I tell my dad about my secret LDR boyfriend of two years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys, I really need your help. I've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now (I'll be 20 next week, my boyfriend is 22). I've kept it secret from my dad the entire time though; when I went to visit him my dad would think I ...

Why do I wonder what is on the other side?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4476 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - I am nor sure what is wrong with me. I am in a relationship with a guy for almost 3 ywars now. We are long distance, but we spend considerable part of the year together (we lived the last 5 months together), and talk constantly. I truly love him. ...

I'm seeing my boyfriend tomorrow for a make or break talk, what can I do or say to him to try and make this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - Ive been seeing an amazing guy for 10 months, hes everything ive ever wanted and more but theres one problem; distance. He lives 150 miles away and couldnt move because of his work and the fact he is carer for his disabled brother. I currently see ...

'Til Dubai do we part...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - I gave birth to my Son a month ago, after a very difficult pregnancy. It was an emergency c-section and our son has been all over the Province in hospitals ever since. Just after he was born, my husband declared that he had been offered a ...

Could friends with benefits work better than a long-distance relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 May 2012 (F) - so for nearly a year i've know this guy. we have similar interests, and we message each other and talk constantly. we try and meet up every week (if not more often) to just chat, and he has become one of my closest friends. to this point our ...

I made a horrible mistake, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone,my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years,and due to college we are doing long distance. For the past few months,his best friend keeps telling me that i should find a guy and maybe kiss since i havent seen my boyfriend in a ...

I cant imagine life without him, but I feel like breaking up with him is something I have to do. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 May 2012 (F) - I don't know if I'm in love with my boyfriend anymore. We've been together for 2 years and we've been through A LOT together, so much crap a relationship shouldn't have to withstand. For about 2 months I've been thinking about how I want us to break ...

Now I hate that his job takes him away 3 days a week! Help me accept this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

8 May 2012 (F) - my husband has always been a truck driver when i meet hem thats what he was doing he would leave monday be back tuesday nite work in twon wednesday then leave thursday and be back friday night and was off for the weekend when i got pregnant he stop ...

How do I repair the damage I've done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

8 May 2012 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 6 months now. the problem is i keep doing the same thing over and over again and realise too late that i messed up again. i just keep getting jealous and not trusting and worrying even when she ...

LDR not working and I've met someone closer. Do I end things?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

7 May 2012 (F) - Hey im 20 yrs old,,im in this dilemma,i have been dating my guy for the past one year but it doesnt seem to work due to the long distance,we rarely meet,like twice in a year,i met this guy in the city i live,i liked him and i decided to give it a ...

My LDR g/f is an actress and has to kiss other men. I feel uneasy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

6 May 2012 (M) - Hello, actually I am in a long distance relationship since last 10 months and these months have been extremely good. As in, we enjoy each others company and love to talk to each other all day and spend time together. But the thing is that since last ...

What if my boyfriend is happier without me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

6 May 2012 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for two months now but I miss my boyfriend so badly that I don't think it's worth it (we are so far apart, it looks like we will only be able to see each other twice until 2013). I told him I was thinking of ...

Should I take this job offer for the reality show?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 May 2012 (F) - Should I take this job offer? Basically, I am currently the youngest assisstant head teacher in Britain and I have been approached by a TV network to make a reality show where I spend a week in different schools around the world to see what teac...

I feel betrayed! My B/f is always lying to me and then turning things around as if its my fault for "not trusting him enough" or "getting angry about stupid things"!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 May 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship and i love my boyfriend. Ever since i left, he has been going out to clubs, bars and parties. Even though it bothers me, I try to be okay with it because i cannot expect to have him stay at home until I return. ...

I wonder if my ex still has feelings for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 May 2012 (M) - Basically myself and my ex girlfriend were broken up for about three months. Then I get text messages just talking about how I'm doing and how my family are doing and so forth. It was a long distance relationship and suddenly I got a text message ...

He's ignored me for a week and a half straight and I'm so pathetic that I've literally been begging him to talk to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4614 days ago

4 May 2012 (F) - Hey all, thanks in advance for taking the time to read it.. trust me, it means a lot. I've been dating my military boyfriend for just shy of 2 years now. We have been best friends for years before we started dating so I know him pretty well. W...

The lack of communication is driving me insane!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - I'm dating a 3rd year resident ophthalmologist long distance. When we're together everything makes sense. We love each other and he even admitted to being in love with me but the moment we we separate he only texts like once a week. sometimes he ...

How can I learn to adjust to a LDR after enjoying a 24/7 relationship in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - Starting an LDR soon, and I don't know how to handle it! My significant other (SO) has had over a year to adjust and cope with it, while (for whatever reason) I put it out of my mind, and haven't completely accepted it. I'm really nervous, we've be...

My boyfriend has been accepted to University and that means moving away. How do I cope while he is away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

3 May 2012 (M) - My boyfriend is very, very clever. It's one of the main things that attracted to me to him. He's majoring in Mathematics and he got accepted to XYZ University yesterday. He is in his 3rd year. he knows a professor there apparently (put in a go...

Careless? Bad memory? He is a good friend. But is he being weird?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4616 days ago

3 May 2012 (F) - I'm Korean Canadian and my ex-bf is Korean. We met in Canada and dated for 6 months. Then he accepted a job offer and moved back to Korea. We maintained a long distance relationship for another 6 months. Then my family and I went to Korea as we do...