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anonymous
writes:me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 6 months now. the problem is i keep doing the same thing over and over again and realise too late that i messed up again. i just keep getting jealous and not trusting and worrying even when she wouldnt do anything unfaithful as we love each other so much. but this time i really mucked it up and she couldnt bare it anymore, she feels like my mum that shes the one having to take care of me as i cried infront of her several times and all her friends now know there's a problem between us. she said whats the point of being faithful if she doesnt get any rewards for it. and i nearly lost her 2 nights ago. she said the only thing thats holding it together and shes giving me one last chance is because of all the good things ive done for her and the happiness we have when i dont show over jealousy and not trusting emotions. ive had a long talk with her that i definitely change for one last time for the better to keep us together because i love her so much and wouldnt wanna lose her. she even says im the best boyfriend she's ever had. she talks about her ex's in the past but i just get annoyed but she says they will never get back together. how do i rebuild our relationship quickly? it's exam time now in university and she will be leaving back to her home in another country in a month where i wouldnt be able to visit her for 2-3 months as she will have a job. shes worried that our relationship wont be strong enough by the time she has to go, please give me some advise on how to make things much better now. she is so hurt from my actions and she said its worse than being cheated on.thanks, alex
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Liberty.S thanks so much :) the thing is it's exam times and i dont have much time to make it as strong as it was before, but ill try everything. (she says this jealousy thing happens most of the time in clubs and she wont know if ive changed yet since she wont go clubbing in exams, but i think im jealous more times not in the club, how do i convince her clubs arent the problem?)
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