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*eg111
writes:I have been seeing my boyfriend for 6 months long distance. Only see him about once a month. He did at one point want me to move with him but then after a few arguments he decided against it. He says he still loves me, but he never texts or calls anymore. He only wants to talk to me online now. Should I just assume that he is only telling me he loves me until someone better comes along? I still love him but it hurts to be treated like this.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (31 May 2012):
 He might already have found someone else and is keeping you as his backup. Drop him. Find someone who is honest and who ACTUALLY wants to spend time with you.
Sorry, he sounds like a guy that doesn't take relationships serious at all.
Good luck
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reader, meg111 +, writes (31 May 2012):
meg111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just saw him on an online chat. He says he never goes there, but yet hes been there for several nites now, which only confirms my suspicions that he is trying to find someone new. He cant even be truthful with me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 I think you are right. If he loved you he would be making more off an effort to spend time with you and keeping in contact, but he is doing the opposite to that, I know it is hard to come to terms with, but I think the best thing to do is to remove him from your life, it will be hard now yes, but in the long run you will be doing yourself a big favour.
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reader, meg111 +, writes (30 May 2012):
meg111 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice. I guess I shouldve broke it off when he went from wanting to be serious to being very distant. I think if he really loved me it wouldnt have turned out like this.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (30 May 2012):
It sounds to me like he may already have found someone else. If he is only willing to talk to you on line then you can be sure that he is hiding something or someone. If he is not willing to commit to you then I think you should end it and find someone closer to home who can give you what you deserve.
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