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*teGT
writes:Basically myself and my ex girlfriend were broken up for about three months. Then I get text messages just talking about how I'm doing and how my family are doing and so forth. It was a long distance relationship and suddenly I got a text message that said she misses where I'm from, to I miss your friendship and then to "I miss you". Everything was going ok and we started emailing quite regularly (unless she forgot to hit send) then we started texting and she asked me to tell her everything that she has missed and catch her up so I sent her an email with everything. In the same conversation she said such things like she wished I lived there and how we could walk around the park and go climbing etc just like how we used to before we broke up. Once I sent the email I never heard anything back for about two weeks in which time I received two more messages saying I miss you and I'm thinking about you. Also she had mentioned that she had been telling her friends about me. Still no reply to the email I don't think she has read it but find it very strange how when I mention it she doesn't reply to my texts but continues to send messages in the middle of the night saying she hopes I'm having a good day (time difference) and she misses me. Up until now all messages have just been about how we miss each other and so on. Before any of this just when we broke up I visited her but wouldn't have anything to do with me but later found out when i left the country that she had been crying three nights in a row because she never heard from me (i tried calling but call didn't go through, iPhone to blackberry problems) but never called or text me to let me know she wanted to see me. Now if i don't text or anything for a while i always get some sort of text message from her. I just thought that it was all very strange. I've never been able stop my feelings for her. Basically if you've been able to understand all if that lol I would greatly appreciate some advice on what you think her thoughts are? Or what i should do in this situation because obviously i cant just meet up with her. If anyone would like further info on the matter before answering just let know. She is also very stubborn, the type that finds it hard to talk about personal issues. Thanks for reading.I look forward to hearing from you.
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reader, SteGT +, writes (5 May 2012):
SteGT is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have text her before with the likes of "I keep getting reminded of you" and when I replied to her "what reminds you of me? (:" There was nothing after.
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reader, SteGT +, writes (5 May 2012):
SteGT is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much mate for leaving an answer. My only worry is with the communication side of things. It's emails and texts one minute and just small talk the next. I'd love for anyone's opinion on what I should do or say to her to let her know that I'm willing to try if she is. Thanks for you'd comment Allan its greatly appreciated. Good luck too (:
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reader, Allan Torres  +, writes (5 May 2012):
Well my actual gf is from france and we have been together for about 3 years, the most important thing about long distance relationships is the comunication if she still wants to talk with you, she still have some feelings for you, but you have to prove her that you want her too and fight for the relationship if not you will lose it, good luck my friend.
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