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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm dating a 3rd year resident ophthalmologist long distance. When we're together everything makes sense. We love each other and he even admitted to being in love with me but the moment we we separate he only texts like once a week. sometimes he disappears during text messages and the lack of communication is driving me insane. I threatened to delete him from my phone and he ignored that text til the next day and said we should work on our 'friendship' and that ultimately the relaionship will only work if we're in the same city. that wont be for at least 2 years. what should i do i love him.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (5 May 2012):
 So do I,and what's better than having an open discussion on it..tell him ur ready to adjust,ur ready to give him space as long as he puts effort to keep the relationship going..let us know how it goes
All the best x
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reader, Tri' +, writes (3 May 2012):
sounds to me like he's either busy or confused.
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female
reader, Tri' +, writes (3 May 2012):
thank you!
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reader, cute angel +, writes (3 May 2012):
Well personally working with opthomologists for over a year I know what a busy schedule they have..when your dating a doctor you should be prepared for this..I think you should first understand how his schedule works and plan out a time accordingly and text during that time..tell him you understand he is working but you miss him and all u need is a sweet little text from him to make your day irrespective of the time..just tell him make an effort to show me you care,by threatening him to delete him off your phone,ur only making your life harder!!be nice it works:) if he still can't cope and finds it too hectic and is depriving u of all the love I think u need to move on..best of luck x
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 May 2012):
 I recommend that you write him a message that goes:
"I don't SEE what the heck you're doing. I think we have a relationship, but it's INVISIBLE to me...."
THAT should pique his curiosity....
Good luck....
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