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*rine
writes:Hey im 20 yrs old,,im in this dilemma,i have been dating my guy for the past one year but it doesnt seem to work due to the long distance,we rarely meet,like twice in a year,i met this guy in the city i live,i liked him and i decided to give it a try,iv been with him for 5months now,i dunno if i should continue doing this,please help
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (15 May 2012):
 Happy to hear your followup. I hope everything works out for you!
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reader, Irine +, writes (15 May 2012):
Irine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank y'all i took time to think things over and want i really want and whom im happy with,i appreciate all your advice ,it really did help ,be blessed buddies :) :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 May 2012):
Just be firm and consistent in breaking up with LDR guy. "No, it's not working out for me. Sorry but it's time for you to move on. I will not be your girlfriend even if you move here in September. Sorry, I have decided and that is the final decision. I wish you well in life and and feel badly that things didn't work out, but the LDR is now over."
"No. It's over."
"No, we are no longer dating."
"You are single and can date other women."
"The relationship is over."
Practice if you have too.
Good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 May 2012):
 You are hurting him by cheating on him and lying to him. IF you want to wait to work it out with him in September you can end it with the local guy now. EITHER way you have to be honest with BOTH of them and let them know that they are not the only one…
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reader, Irine +, writes (7 May 2012):
Irine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIv not told him i love aonther guy cause i dont wanna hurt him,but the fact that iv not seen him from new years eve just makes things uneasy,,he claims that he will further his education in my city from september
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 May 2012):
have you told him you are in love with someone else?
very long distance only meeting every 6 months is no way to have a relationship?
who's planning on moving and ending the distance gap? and when?
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reader, Irine +, writes (7 May 2012):
Irine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks i have tried to break up with the ldr guy buh he keeps insisting dat we've come along way and he cant do without me,,i do love him just that the distnace aint doing us justice,and i love the new guy too,CONFUSED!!! :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2012): I like So Very Confused's answer. It is kind and gentle. It is kind gentle and wise. It is kind, gentle, and loaded with the wisdom of the ages. It has depth and profound meaning. It is a thoughtful answer. It is a prolific answer.
Her answer is kind, gentle, prolific, profound, and wise.
It is also funny, and a sense of humor is something that is always appreciated.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 May 2012):
you need to break up with your LDR guy
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (7 May 2012):
Dump the LDR guy. Like you said, it's not working. Look, the fact you're already with this new guy for 5 months tells me you don't really care about the LDR guy anyway, so why drag on? It's not fair to the LDR guy, nor to your new bf.
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