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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

Eating disorder thoughts are slowly becoming worse.. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I am 17 years old and I'm terrified about the thoughts that have been entering my mind lately. When I was 6, my parents got a divorce. My dad dated off and on, then finally got 'serious' with a woman when I was 13. She was a complete psycho; sadly, ...

My phobia prevents me from seeking medical help. What is wrong wth me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - hi im hopeing maybe i can get some help on this health question. Im 23 yrs old and have resently started suffering with terrible head aches im constantly tierd and in the past few yrs my eye sight has gone very poor. i recently visited my opticions ...

I'm too much of a people pleaser and not true to myself! How do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - i need advice because im sure theres something wrong with me. it sounds silly but noone really likes me. this isnt about feeling sorry for myself but im convinced theres something wrong with me. when i was younger my dad left my mum for his sister ...

Tips for more attractive breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - i am 5.2 height and 34b breast....how can i make them tight....appealing and beautiful....need some exercises and massage advices ..my husbend is crazy for hight and big boobs.....how can i walk sexy...?plz reply soon...

I am shy with a speech impediment, need suggestions on asking a girl out??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - I was wandering what are the best ways to ask girls out? I am 25 years old with a speech impediment. I have always been to shy to ask girls out due to my speech impediment. I decided it about time that I get over me being shy. So I was wanderi...

Had sex twice, but did not feel anything physically, why??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi. Well this is pretty embarrassing to talk about but I'd like to know if this is an issue so here goes... I had never had sex until I was with a prostitute a year ago. The second time was with a prostitue also, earlier this year. I guess I ...

Need Help With Possible Anorexia...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, how are you? I'd like to thank you all on your help on everything else. They've all been very encouraging, rational answers that have either made me feel better or have helped. So, again: my sincerest gratitude to all of you. Thank ...

Sex should feel good at some point right...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Here is my story... Well, I lost my virginity fairly late compared to others that I know. I was 20. Before that, I never was so into the idea of sex or felt that I needed it. I know this may be a taboo topic but if I wanted to pleasure myself,...

I can't get rid of thrush and am too embarrassed to go to the doctor

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - i have had very bad thrush for about 6 years i went to the doctors about it and he gave me a perscription for clotrimazole 1% cream.it did the job while i was applying the cream but as soon as it got better and i stopped the cream it came back with ...

New guy claims to have gotten an STD from me and its ruined our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi I am trying right now to get over the worst thing that has ever happened to me in my romantic life. About a month ago I met this guy at a club and we really hit it off and have been living a real intense, romantic life for the last month. He ...

Can I move out at 15? I don't have a good relationship with my always ill mother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hey, this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. My mum has been ill for over 10 years and from a young age I have looked after her. I left school at 13 and developed depression. My brother's left home and my dads alwa...

What's so good about big penises?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Granted I myself am not very well equipped, unless you consider 5 inches long and 4 inches in girth as well equipped, I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Do big penises actually feel be...

Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...

My mother is eating herself to death!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My mother has extremely unhealthy eating habits, and I'm very concerned about her health. She refuses to see a doctor, even for a normal check-up, and hasn't seen one for over ten years. She keeps saying she'll go once she loses some weight, which ...

Does the placebo pill you take during your period still protect you from pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I feel like this is a bit of a silly question that i probably should know the answer to but anyway.. I have been on the pill for about 3 years and use it as the only form of contraception. Sexually active throughout this whole time (with the s...

Two days after anal sex and I'm still bleeding. Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I tried anal sex for the first time with my bf, and it hurt so I told him too pull it out even before it got all the way in. When I got home, and used the restroom -number2- I realized my anus was bleeding. This is the second day that it's been ...

My friends are envious but I hate being so skinny!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - This doesnt really have anything to do with relationships but i am and always have been skinny, i absolutely hate my arms they're the worst, my legs are getting better. Loads of my friends think i'm lucky to be this thin but i would rather jus...

I'm having trouble coping with my sons' drug addictions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - How can I be happy, when 2 of my son is a drug addict,and can die any time? I'm going for counseling , and they are keep saying, that is not my fault, and I should be living my own life, because it is his problem not mine.. I know , we gave ...

Should I get a checkup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i have a small flesh coloured bump on my right vaginal lip, i dont know whether its genital warts or an ingrown hair from shaving, but today i squeezed it and a small bit of pus came out now it looks like a spot? last year i caught chlamydia and then...

How can I be ok with the result of my exam, whether I pass or fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i please need some big advice that will convince my self that everything will be ok. i am a student. and yesterday we have this exam. i study a lot for a past few 7 months.its actually give me a big pressure, depression and hard migraine. i was ...

I can't get an erection around women any more, am I gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - hi, im a 20 year old male and in the past two years have become concerned that i may be becoming bi sexual or even gay! it started when i used to smoke canabis alot and resulting in me giving up wich is a good thing i guess, but then the thoughts...

Can I harm my unborn child if I smoke and drink around my pregnant wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: Question edited for clarity] i drink wine regularly, my wife is pregnant, is there any effects on my unborn baby because of my drink? is there any risk of smoking and drinking wine on my child which is not come in this world? ...

I've been short of breath for a couple of days, when should I see a doctor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 July 2010 (?) - For the past few days it feels like I've had a shortness of breath, and I can't figure out what it is. I'm extremely scared, and I don't know when I should go to the doctor. Could it be because I haven't exercised in about a month?? Before that I ...

Any tips on diet and exercise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Ok, i am 18 years old, male, about 5'10". I am trying to plan a workout/weightloss/muscle gain or what ever you would like to call it so that i can try and gain muscle and lose fat. Would a detox THEN workout work best or just workout? Al...

Worried about b/f's health and weight

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hi :) my boyfriend is very heavy for his height and age. We've been together 7 months and I love him so much that I've actually realized sometimes i dont even think about what his body looks like because I'm so happy just being around him. But I do ...

How to avoid ED

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - How can i avoid erectiyle dysfunction and premature ejaculation natrually?...

Worried about these bruises, help please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) - So there are 2 bruises on my knee (maybe 3) and I'm not sure how I got them. I think they've been here for about 3-4 days...I'm just a little worried because on my leg there's also a bruise but I can't see it, it just hurts when I touch that spot. I ...

Teenage questions about sexual health....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 3 questions from the same poster have been merged into this one post] Question 1. Okay, so I take a shower everday, and wash my clothes on a daily basis. But my pants still smell around my crotch area. I'm a virgin, and i've had...

I'm very insecure about my body, What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I have really small breasts and I feel insecure. I admit a bit of it is my own fault for letting it get to me, but a lot of people (especially insensitive guys) have commented negatively about this fact - also with the media and porn that men like, ...

Should I run away, or keep rescuing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - I met my former fiancee four years ago in a philosophy class on a community college campus while we were both still seniors in high school. We were both in emotionally fragile states at that time. I was recovering from an alcohol issue, she was ...

I need help to see the light through the trees, Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - Grrr I have so many problems at the moment, this is my 3rd cry for help in 24 hours, let me see, I have almost lost my girlfriend, I have had to take out an IVA to pay off debt, I have a default now with a company, and I am having to take a loan out ...

He's excited but I don't feel ready for this...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - im 17 n my boyfriend really wants to have a baby he says he wil be there for me and everything so we started having unprotected sex and ive missed my period and have been feeling sick so im reaaal scared now and dont know what to do. i told him and ...

How can I overcome painful sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5223 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a 22 year old female. I lost my virginity at a late age compared to others that I know. I was 20. I lost it to someone who I was falling in love with. The first time was very painful, I was cringing and he had to stop before he could even ...

Has any one here had breast implants?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - I was just wondering if any women here have had breast implants, and if so, do you have any regrets? I've been thinking of getting breast implants for a long time now, I've never been happy with mine. I am aged 24 and a small 32b cup, I would like ...

What do I do about the towel/tampons?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey, this is entirely embarrassing for me so please don't laugh or leave a patronizing message. I'm 15 and have recently gotten with my boyfriend, we're fine and comfortable - everything that I expect from him. But even the best trust stops ...

Risk of diseases from anal sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys, whats the risk of diseases of doing anal sex? by the way im (13). My boyfriend (16) wants vagina sex but im not ready so we do anal and i want to know what risks there are of doing it? Im also really horney all he time and he wants me ...

Wife's weight is becoming an issue...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - I'm having a hard time figuring out what, if anything, to do or say about the situation with my wife and her weight. We're in our mid to late 30s. When we met about 5 years ago, we were well-matched. Both around the same height (I'm 5'9", she's...

Do I have a good penis length?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Do you think 6.75 non bone pressed is decent penis size? I increased the length with stretches (used to be 6. Here's the thing, do you think that's long enough or should I make it even bigger. I ask women for this question....

We're trying for a baby...what do you think? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - PLEASE NOTE: i have submitted this question previously but it seems my question was misinterperted by readers as they seem to have made the focus on my age, as i made a mistake by not making it obvious that i am NOT 16-17, i am 20, as this is my ...

Questions about sex and our marriage....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

26 July 2010 (?) - hi everybody.; 1. tell me what is masterbating? i am 6 years married and have 5 years baby...1 year ago a miscarriage and d.n.c. .;..now we want baby but alas....i always enjoy sex but my husband come soon and cannot have orgasm.;some people s...

Does anyone have any knowledge or experiences with depression, OCD or anxiety disorders?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I was recently diagnosed to have Anxiety and Depression disorder. Because of my great extent of Depression I was referred to a psychiatrist where she also mentioned something about OCD, which I believe falls under an anxiety disorder. I am ...

Are there any safe ways to remove unwanted hair at home without expensive tools?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i have hair on my stomach and my back. having hair in my armpits, legs and you-know where is normal, i know. but it's summer and i want to wear bathing suits and go to the beach and not feel like people can see the hairs. is there any SAFE way to ...

Would you care if if your boyfriend was circumsized or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (M) - Ok, a few weeks ago i had the opportunity to have sex with a girl for the 1st time, but i held out...because I am un-circumcised and was afraid of what she would think because i know most people are circumcised and i know she had been with a couple ...

21 year old virgin loser, never been kissed by a sober guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi im a 21 year old female virgin (almost 22 soon) i never had a real relationship and i never been on a date... i have madeout with guys but everytime ive been kissed was by my guy friends who were drunk/horny. i imagine that since they were drunk ...

How to meet and date when I'm overweight and underconfident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I am looking for advice please, about meeting and dating girls. I am very overweight, and sometimes can be very underconfident. I know it is possible that my weight won't put someone off, as I have been in a relationship, but now I am uncertain a...

Why do I keep having these feelings that I'm not smart enough or capable enough to have a career?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - If someone can help me, I'd be really grateful. For the past several months I've been preparing to start a new career and it's something I have my heart set on doing, but I feel overwhelmed by fears of failure. I have long desired to teach...

He doesn't make me orgasm and I don't know how to tell him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has never given me an orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoy the sex, but I need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. He sometimes touches me down there, but never for long enough for me to orgasm, but I know if I asked him to ...

My friend is suicidal, how can I help her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I have a friend that is depressed and lately she has mentioned even suicide. I am trying my best to help her since I am the only person that she talks to about everything. She is 30yrs old and has gone throught so much in her life, was divorced...

Having communication problems since my break-up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5148 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hi there.. I was considering remaining anonymous to ask for advice but maybe it will help if others know that I am struggling also. The problem I face is not wanting to let people get emotionally close to me. I don't know if this is a question or...

Can our relationship survive his depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my partner for over 4.5 years .. we were perfect together .. we had our occasional problems but they weren't affecting our relationships AT ALL .. However, he got depressed months ago and he hid it well! he b...