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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi :) my boyfriend is very heavy for his height and age. We've been together 7 months and I love him so much that I've actually realized sometimes i dont even think about what his body looks like because I'm so happy just being around him. But I do wonder what the future would be like... House, maybe kids. How long will he live? I'm terrified of losing him.... So I talked to him and he understood and promised he would work on his weight. He went to see a doctor who gave him a specific diet. He kept to the diet and got a job that requires a lot of physical activity, and when he went back to the doctor he'd gained a few pounds! I thought it was just muscle at first... But then I realized he's not exactly sticking to his diet as well as he should. How do I handle this? :(
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Could be the other way around. How would you like him to feel about you then? Take him for a walk, go do something, and stop giving yourself gray hairs.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 It's him who has to handle this hun and not you. He has to face the reasons why he over eats and deal with them in order to make a lasting change. If he doesn't do that he'll be bingeing and dieting all his life and you won't be able to stop it. x
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