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*Scooter43
writes:I was wandering what are the best ways to ask girls out?I am 25 years old with a speech impediment. I have always been to shy to ask girls out due to my speech impediment. I decided it about time that I get over me being shy. So I was wandering what are some good ways to ask a girl out?One way I was thinking is when I call a girl to ask her out, to have some notes on the side to help.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (31 July 2010):
 My boyfriend is shy around women, not very talkative/communicative, but he's a real stud when it comes to private "conversations".
And I believe you're the same as him, you just didn't get the chance to explore yourself.
Give it a shot, I know it's hard, sometimes I feel like I'm "babysitting" my boyfriend, by helping him overcome is "fear" of expressing himself, I'm sure you will find a nice girl who can take the "beast" out of you. Girls like random conversations, so try to approach a funny subject, funny and interesting, if you want, you could google some lines, but my advice, just be yourself. The girl who fits your personality is the girl who understands your efforts and appreciates them, so she decides to hook up with you, because you both can do wonderful things together ^_^
Good luck!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 Your idea is a good one. Also you could try practising what you will say in the mirror and then try it face-to-face with someone. I'm presuming you have someone in mind? Does she know you and has she heard you speak? If so I suggest acknowledging right at the start that you are nervous and will probably stumble over your words then it's out there and you wont get too flustered.
Good Luck dude the right girl will not care how you speak.
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reader, Alwayswondering  +, writes (31 July 2010):
Hey!
What is wrong with how you talk? I look at it this way. it's a 50/50 chance. Either you will get accepted, or rejected. I wouldn't have notes on the side. I would just ask her out, face to face. If you get rejected, it's not the end of the world. You will like/love other women. I've been rejected many times, only had one gf in my life. Rejection sucks. What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger, my friend. Good luck with your lady friend. Tell how it went down if you want!!
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