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writes:Hi. Well this is pretty embarrassing to talk about but I'd like to know if this is an issue so here goes...I had never had sex until I was with a prostitute a year ago. The second time was with a prostitue also, earlier this year. I guess I was quite old to still be a virgin but I was impotent when I tried to have sex in the past so I've been afraid to try again. But I got some viagra and that works.The issue I had was when I finally had sex I couldn't feel anything, I mean physically. I enjoyed it, sort of (it was awesome and dreadful at the same time actually) and I came almost right away but I didn't feel any pleasurable sensations in my penis.The second time was the same, except I couldn't cum at all. I enjoyed the experience much more even though I didn't feel anything physically. It didn't bother me because I loved going for fifteen minutes. I've decided it's far better for sex to end when the girl gets off exhausted rather than I blow my top after less than a minute.But why couldn't I feel anything? Was it because working girls are... how shall I put this delicately, not as tight? Or was it the viagra? Or was it that I obviously wasn't in love with either of them?Has anyone had some experience with this (I'm obviously very inexperienced) or could shed some light on this?And please, please don't just tell me I should meet a nice girl and have a relationship. I know. I'd like nothing better but it's not that easy. I don't know why but besides when I was younger I have zero luck with women. That's a whole other issue.Thanks for your time everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2010): Thanks for the replies everyone. I'll think about going to the doc.
I don't experience a problem masturbating usually but it depends. If I'm really aroused and getting into it then it feels great, if I'm not I may as well be rubbing my arm. I don't know if that's normal for most men.
I do experience problems staying erect, even when I'm by myself. I have to stimulate myself constantly or I lose my erection. I don't know what to do about it, or how a doctor could help. Right now it's not a probelm because I can only afford to have sex three or four times a year. If I had it frequently, like if I had a girlfriend I couldn't afford viagra every time so I'd have to go to a doctor and really get to the bottom of it. I get the feeling it's psychological judging by the raging erection I get every morning it seems unlikely it's a physical problem.
Anyway thanks again, I'll give it some thought.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 pros know tricks to make you feel good. Rookies generally need experience. Not to worry.
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reader, VenaCava  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 Hi there,You need not to feel ashamed for going out with prostitutes. It’s your right; you have no GF, Fiancée, or Wife, you are an available young man. You did not hurt anyone; instead you give two working girls income. So once again, you should not be ashamed of going out with a prostitute.However, you should go for a check up with a doc. You actually should have done that even before you used Viagra. You put yourself in danger for that pal, you did not know if your heart and systems is strong enough for the sudden strong stimulants.No need to feel embarrassed to tell everything to the nice doc, they are under a Vegas-like oath. “What happens in my consultation room stays in my consultation room”. They won’t tell anyone or they can get sued. If you are indeed having something wrong, no need to be embarrassed about it. No one’s perfect.
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reader, the lone addvicer  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 i think it is bciz of the girl you told she is a prostitute find a good girl whom you love and you will feel the sensation
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 Honestly I would talk to a doctor about this it may be something very simple.
good luck dude
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): Hi i think you have to go get your self cercumsised,i had the same problem too,i always got premature ejaculations and never felt any thing while making love to my girl friend.After the cercumsision i'm doing wonders in bed,so go try it.good luck and hope it works for you too
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reader, model101_t800  +, writes (31 July 2010):
 Thats a pretty tough question to answer without being in the same spot as you. If you were impotent earlier then it could be that you have insensitive nerves in your penis which is why you didn't feel the sensations and pleasure. Truly speaking you should consult a doctor about it.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (31 July 2010):
 It's difficult to really understand your exact problem. However it sounds like the Viagra might have something to do with the lack of sensation. Maybe even the lack of emotion, though that is less likely. I'm not so convinced that the "working woman not tight enough" explanation holds much water. While I'm not a 'working woman', I'm fairly experienced and I haven't had anyone tell me they felt 'nothing'.
How does it feel when you masturbate? CAN you masturbate?
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