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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Gay relationships category)

Gay relationships: Help and advice

Is Breaking Up a Mistake? Should I Tell Her the Truth? I need advice to Get Over Someone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - For about three years I have had feelings for a close girl friend of mine. I have told her I was bi/ pan sexual. I have also told her about my feelings for her a couple years ago. It didnt go anywhere because she is straight. But this past summer ...

Does this make him gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - My bf told me that he is bi and likes me to use a dildo on him. Does that make him gay? I'm afraid I will lose him because he might want to be with a guy. He loves sex with me and I turn him on. He also tells me he loves me . He says he doesn't ...

He says he is straight. But is he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4752 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I am a bi male. I have a friend who I believe is "straight" but have doubts. Now ordinarily I wouldn't care about another persons sexual preference. But I have feelings for him. He knows that I am bisexual and has known since the beginning of our ...

She's got a girlfriend but I'm attracted to her. Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - ok I haven't known her very long, I've only been at university a couple of weeks, but I quite like her. I'm a lesbian btw. I first saw her a couple of times while waiting for inductions on my course. She stood on her own, me with my flatmates and...

Mixed signals from my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - Me and my ex was together for 8 years until 4 weeks ago when we finished. We had our ups and downs but we had a good life and had worked hard for everything that we have got. My ex said I became to clingy and made her feel unloved, unwanted and ...

Am I gay because I think of guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4782 days ago

27 September 2011 (?) - hi i am a 15 year male i would like to know if i am gay because if i see teen gay boys on the internet i think about them and how nice it would be if we could get intimate so am i gay please help...

How to hint other people I am gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey there all who want to help :) I am gay, 22 years old, straight looking and acting though, since i dont like being femine (no offence to femine gays out there) and since that is the way I normally am :P. My question is, if there are any si...

Why do I only want to date my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - Hey everyone I'm a gay guy and I guess I find it hard to get close to other gay people and I’ve had my fair share of disastrous dates! Anyway I’ve come to realise that the only people I seem truly attracted to are people that I am friends with tho...

How do I get this sex addict some help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - A member of my immediate family is gay. None of us have a problem with this, however his behaviour over the last 16 years is causing me to question whether he is a possible sex addict. He has never had a meaningful relationship in his life. He has...

How can I tell my family that I'm bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - hi im bisexual and i want tell my family but there really old fashioned and they would reject me in seconds what should i do...

I am jealous that my friend can get more guys than I can. Also I have some lesbian fantasies

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I am only 13 and I am totally into guys. See the thing is I have a gorgeous face, but I am a little chubby, not like extremely fat, but I am like 30lb. overweight but no guys like me. My friend has the most ugly face ever but she has huge boobs and ...

I'm freaked out that I'm fantasizing about a man who came onto me 10 years ago!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4784 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - i am 52 and find myself fantising about men one who came onto me about ten years ago and i cant seem to shake that i told him no way i am so confused and love women and their bodies Help...

Am I reading too much into his visit? Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

24 September 2011 (M) - i am gay and recently have had a reunion with a friend from 10 years ago, which then i liked him, but nothing happened as the circumstances where strange. we have met again and i have fallin for him, we spent a holiday together with another fri...

Am a straight, married female with kids, but feel a connection more thanfriendship with another woman. What does it mean and how can I tell what she feels?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - I'm a straight married female with kids. I have been best friends with this girl for about 2 and half years. She is also married with kids. We had an immediate connection from the start. Became close quick. We spend almost every day together. I feel ...

is it right for coaches to deny his players the freedom to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

23 September 2011 (F) - I am in love with my girlfriend who is in my country's national under-21 football team. She's 19, the captain of the team, and is the only out lesbian in her team. According to her, several of her team mates are closeted lesbians but they are afraid ...

My first time lesbian sex came and I wasnt ready, now gf is feeling horrible.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4786 days ago

22 September 2011 (F) - Lesbian girlfriend is feeling guilty about our first time sex. I didn't want it but she did so she ate me out. I'm okay with it, at the time almost a year ago I wasn't ready to be intimate with her bc I thought she was just another person trying to ...

My current relationship is suffering from past issues

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22 September 2011 (F) - Im gay and my 1st gf controlled me and cheated on me for the whole time we was together,, my problem is my past and current relationship is suffering threw my insercurties and jelousy im so scared she will cheat on me but deep down i no she is not ...

Why is my lesbian partner lying to me when she goes to meet a "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Why is my lesbain partner lying to me when she goes to meet a friend? This friend happens to be an ex of hers, but holy batman, she tells her everything that goes on in her life and when I ask her what she did on her day off, she says "nothing" ...

How do you know when someone is bi curious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - okey so this is kinda long.... but I do need some advice. How do you know when someone is bi curious? Well, this is a complicated situation. I just moved back to my hometown so to speak after living for a year in another town. SO when I came bac...

Lesbian thinks about being male and being dominated sexually by her female partner as male. Is it normal??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - I'm a submissive lesbian in a relationship with a dominant lesbian. I really enjoy being submissive to her. Although its not the macho-sadistic (I may have misspelled it) type relationship. Im a femme lesbian and love being a mushy sexy sensitive ...

The "stranger" bartender...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I saw this guy in a pub. He is working there as a bartender. When I ordered a drink I realised I liked him. I was gazing him with such admire. But then I just gave up, I thought myself that I won't see him again in my life, probably. ...

Can't stop fantasing about oral sex with another man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - Hello, i have a girlfriend and we are happy, we have a good sex life. The thing is i can't stop thinking about giving oral sex to another man, i even have fantasies about having sex with 3 or more men. I do not think of myself as gay, i have m...

Should I tell my parents I'm gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4788 days ago

18 September 2011 (?) - hi i am a 15 year old teen boy i dont know if im gay i think i am because i find teen boys and models very attractive my mother send my to a doctor a social worker because im very introvent dont talk much with people. when i am home im just indoors ...

Am I in the wrong? I didn't mean to be, I had her best interests at heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - Okay; I'll try to keep a long story short. I have a friend who I've known for about a year and a half who I'll refer to as M; we'd speak every single day, talking for hours on end. We'd talk about really deep things as well as just genuinely ...

My gay best friend wants me to be his pretend girlfriend so that his parents don't get to know about his sexual orientation

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl. One of my best friends is gay, and he asked me to be his pretend girlfriend so his parents don't get suspicious. They don't know he's gay and are very strict in their religion, which is anti-gay. My friend has a plan. ...

What's going on with me? am I gay??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - Hello everybody!! i am 17 years old and I am experiencing things that are not right for my family, i know that because they are always softened that being gay is horrible. what happens is that I think I'm gay because I love to watch movies of ...

Do gay teen boys have more boys or more girls as friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

16 September 2011 (?) - hi im a 15 teen boy i was wondering would you find that gay teen boys will have more boys or girls as friends...

My ex-partner is now socialising with my old friends with her new partner!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4793 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - Hello I broke up from my partner in July 2010. Up until March this year we managed to remain good friends. Now we have both moved on, she has a new partner, but is socialising with my friends of 10 years who I introduced her too. I'm finding it ...

She says u can build a relationship early on(2wks in) by having sex. Is she just using me for sex? Or is that true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - I'm lesbian and I recently met a bisexual woman and we connected instantly. We started hanging out, texting n calling each other. The weird thing is we went to sex store this week and she was telling me which strap on and vibrator she'll use on me. ...

How can I tell my straight friend that I love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - Why is it hard to tell that person you love him? I'm a gay and he is straight! And of now he never answers my txtmsgs or my chat msgs. But I never tried to tell him that I care for him, because I don't want to risk our friendship and a...

My feelings change very quickly and I'm not sure who I'm attracted to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - I'm an 18 year old male. I consider myself as Bisexual but it's confusing. I definitely feel attracted to girls, although not as many as guys that I'm attracted to. I generally find Men more attractive. However, the idea of penetrative gay ...

My ex is rubbing her new relationship in my face

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

15 September 2011 (F) - I'm new here and i reallllllllllyy neeeed some help I had a very rocky relationship with my girlfriend for 11 months. Everything was cool at first, but things just changed. She was controlling and never let me do what I needed to do. It was a...

Sticky "love triangle" If she doesn't know, should I tell her? That her ex is bi? That he asked me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

15 September 2011 (M) - ok so im gay, been out for a while now so short story: a bi guy "came out" to me i guess last year long: This guy would come to my school to visit his girlfriend, but we'd socialize to (i didnt know him before he'd come to visit her, nor did I eve...

My hope keeps me from moving on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

14 September 2011 (M) - Help, i can't get over my ex boyfriend... I am gay and i believe he's at least bi. It's been 2 months since he dumped me and i still miss him so badly.. He left me for another girl which i believe was his rebound since they moved on so fast and h...

When is the right time to make my move? I'm Bi. In Closet. Really confused about this guy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

14 September 2011 (M) - So im really good friends with this guy (he's 19 and I'm 22), who i believe is in the closet (says he's interested in women on facebook and has had not serious girlfriends in the past, and never really talks about it.) He always tells me how good...

I have fallen in love with a co-worker. He is straight and ten years younger than me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

13 September 2011 (M) - i have fallen in love with a straight guy and he is my co- worker. he 10 yrs younger than me. our friendship started in work and then we meet always in the work and one day i feel attached to him. we talk and laugh but nowadays he never answerd ...

Should I let go of him, or should I hang on... I can't decide..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4794 days ago

13 September 2011 (M) - Right now, i am caught in a dilemma of whether i should keep on hoping and fighting inside, by keeping up with NC and expecting with strong belief that my ex boyfriend will come back to me. I am gay, 17 years old. I posted this question some ti...

My girlfriend prefers her phone over me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

13 September 2011 (F) - Hi.i'm a very lovable person.very affectionate and sexual but my gf often would rather be on her phone checking her facebook and stuff.she is not very sexual and she is always tired. i'm tired of asking for attention.i don't know what i can do.even ...

B/f get way too turned on talking about men, is he bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have phone sex alot because we have a long distance relationship so it's something that we do and often enjoy. My boyfriend is the strong muscle built work out all the time macho aggressive tough guy. He loves females and is ...

Should I continue with my 'affair'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4796 days ago

12 September 2011 (M) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, I love him so much. The thought of him not being by my side just makes me feel so depressed. During out first 6-8 month, he was cheating on me with this guy, I saw plenty of emails. I don't know if ...

In a relationship but restless!

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11 September 2011 (F) - I am a 21 year old female, i've been in a Lesbian relationship for a little over a month. Things are great I have nothing to complain about. My problem then? I am restless. I am not sure how to describe it exactly. Its like I want to constantly ...

My husband and I both have fantasies. How can I bring up my fantasy for his consideration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - A few years ago my husband told me he had a dream of me having sex with a very large woman. We talked and for the first time I admitted to him I always wondered what it would be like and I get turned on watching lesbian porn. I told him how nerv...

I am gay. He flirts with me but also sees girls. What do I need to do, and how, to get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

10 September 2011 (M) - I have been in love with my best friend for the best part of three years, Our relationship is THE best... We hang out alot, we do sport together and we are very open with each other, buy I know I should give up and move on but I can't... He is ...

I'm stuck in a difficult situation with my lesbian teacher and I need help? Can I fix this and how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

9 September 2011 (F) - I'm 18. I need some advice ASAP so I hope you guys can help me out. k, so around 2 months ago, I saw my teacher exiting a public venue, holding hands with a woman who looked to be around the same age as her (late 20s). Okay, so I know it was chil...

She's made me feel like I'm the crazy one, but she's lied, and pushed me away, and I just can't understand this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - this is a bit of an odd question, and i'm hoping someone will be able to help me in one way or another. i've posted on here a few times about the same thing cause something always felt a bit off to me, now i KNOW something is wrong. i've been dati...

Lesbian girlfriend too deep in the closet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - I've been in a lesbian relationship with my girlfriend for 14 months now, its actually a wonderful relationship but it has its problems. My gf and I are both in the closet about our relationship to coworkers and family. A couple of my friends know ...

Should I experiment with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - So i have liked this girl for ages! and we have had our times flirting now and again, she knows am bi and that I like her but she says she's flattered but she thinks she's straight. but we stopped talking for like two months, so last night I'am on ...

Obviously interested, but avoids spending extra time with me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - I met a girl a few months ago who works in close proximity to me, and I noticed that she'd always look at me in an admiring and adorable way. I too thought she was adorable, so I went up to her one day and we started talking. We did the whole ...

How do I ask if she's bi without ruining our friendship?

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8 September 2011 (F) - I am a female, and have a bestfriend who is also female. We are so close and i would do anything for this girl. I am married and she is single. I am also bi. When we first started being friends i told her this and she never judged me at all and ...

Will this plan work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

8 September 2011 (M) - Hello there :), I'm a closeted sophmore and for months now I've been trying to figure out a way to come out of the closet to my friends and family. I've thought of all the possible out comes and I have a back up plan in case things go badly....