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writes: HelloI broke up from my partner in July 2010. Up until March this year we managed to remain good friends. Now we have both moved on, she has a new partner, but is socialising with my friends of 10 years who I introduced her too. I'm finding it very difficult to accept this. What would you advise?Mags
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (17 September 2011):
Hmmmmm well, you cant really tell he she can't socialise with your friends, nor your friends not to socialise with her, neither are your property and both have the inviolable right to do as they please pretty much in this regard. I can understand why you would feel this way but in my eyes there isn't an awful lot you can do. Unless you are seriously proposing to tell either concerned party that you don't want it happening. You may have introduced them but they remain free human beings with the right to choose their friends and the people they socialise with.
I think you may just have to accept this to be honest. Sorry. Good luck :)
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