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writes: I am a 21 year old female, i've been in a Lesbian relationship for a little over a month. Things are great I have nothing to complain about. My problem then? I am restless. I am not sure how to describe it exactly. Its like I want to constantly make drastic changes with my life. Almost like I am bored with my life. I know this is going to start affecting my relationship, because the changes I usually make are huge. I am even contemplating about breaking up, just because I Need a change and I am restless. I am afraid I might not be meant to be a relationship type person anymore. My longest relationship was 4.5 years. I used to love staying at home, but my last relationship its like I was always caged up at home, while the person I was dating was out having fun. Now it is like every chance I get I want to go out, I hate going home. I have been trying to prolong my urge and desire to do something drastic, by working 15 hour days to keep my mind busy. But the urge is getting worse and my family is worried. When I have these episodes I drop contact with everyone for days and do not end up showing up to my apt for days at a time. I just act on impulse and go with the flow. Everyone just says stop and don't do those things...If I could stop believe me I would. What can I do?How do I stop these urges?Why do you think I have these urges?Please help!
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