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writes:okey so this is kinda long.... but I do need some advice.How do you know when someone is bi curious?Well, this is a complicated situation. I just moved back to my hometown so to speak after living for a year in another town. SO when I came back I saw this guy I have always liked. I dont know but I dont know if it is me, or if he's giving me signals that he might be bi/gay. He doesnt know I'm gay (just family and close friends know) so yeah I'm still in the coming out process. SO I saw him at church like 2 sundays ago. and he sat next to me. There were times we made eye contact and he would whisper things to make me laugh. Then after the service, we went to a restaurant to dine with the musicians. and he gave me as ride. When we were there, he sat in front of me, and again, we made eye contact a couple of times. ON our way back home, he asked me if I had a gf and why I dont have a gf. I was about to till him I'm gay, but for some reason I chickened out....he's single btw.anyways, I saw him again at church yesterday, and again he sat next to me after we played with the band. And we made some eye contact again, and there was this time when he said something right by my ear, that I felt his lips almost touching my ear. after the service the band was planning to hang out, and since another friend of mine gave me a ride to church and since he wasnt going to be able to hang out because he had to do something, but he told me to go and hang out with the band if I wanted to and that he would go and pick me up and give me a ride back home since my other friend was going to have to leave early because he had to get up early today. I just don't know what to do. I want to take things step by step. like start by telling him I'm gay and work my way up from there. But I dont know how to tell him, I feel really dumb for not telling him this when he asked me if I had a gf. I know this is complicate, but I'm willing to take the risk.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2011): Since you willing to take the risk, i would say Go for it! All the best, you never know what's in his mind right...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2011): It's really not complicated. You just missed your first opportunity to tell him. Sincere the chemistry is building I'm sure there will be another opportunity to tell him. Just enjoy his company for now. It's best to take things slow anyway. So enjoy hanging out with him and make more plans to hang out.
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