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writes:A few years ago my husband told me he had a dream of me having sex with a very large woman. We talked and for the first time I admitted to him I always wondered what it would be like and I get turned on watching lesbian porn. I told him how nervous I was to explore it and after a few weeks of trying to convince me he gave up. Lately I've been having urges to be with a woman and I need his help to finally do this but we haven't talked about it since then and I don't know how to bring it up. What to do?
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reader, hot4shoes +, writes (10 September 2011):
 My husband and I have a very open and exciting life. He mentioned to me that he'd often fantasized about a 3way with another female. I wasn't so excited about that one, BUT I did fantasize what it would be like to have two guys....him and another guy.
We watched XXX movies and talked about it and being the generous and open guy he is....well to be nice on here, he made it happen with a nice looking and super hot friend of his. Oh my god was it ever HOT! And yes, we've enjoyed it on occasion since then. Your relationship has to be very secure with no jealousies and only for the benefit of your own relationship. It will not improve a poor relationship nor will it strengthen a weak one. Be careful on this adventure and don't allow any feelings for the other person to advance. I love only one person....but do enjoy others from time to time.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (10 September 2011):
 Just sit down and talk with him. Tell him that you appreciate his patience in waiting for you to decide if that's something you really wanted to do. And express that you would really like to fulfill that fantasy.
Obviously he would be on board with your decision since he's been trying to convince you for weeks.
Good luck!
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