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*onny 1234
writes:I'm a straight married female with kids. I have been best friends with this girl for about 2 and half years. She is also married with kids. We had an immediate connection from the start. Became close quick. We spend almost every day together. I feel like there's something more. We both kind of flirty. How do I know how she feels? My gut says there's a different feeling then there's just friendship.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 September 2011):
 So what will you do if there is more? Have an affair? Divorce your husband and hope she does the same?
Have you thought it through?
Also, what if she doesn't feel the same way about you? I don't think the average friendship handles professions of love all that well, if you know what I mean.
Do you have problems in your marriage? It could be a reason why you are hoping there is more here. The thing is, if you aren't fulfilled inyour marriage, having an affair will not fix anything.
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reader, Sonny 1234 +, writes (24 September 2011):
Sonny 1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am hoping there's more. I've never felt this way about any other girl. I love my husband but it's a different feeling with her
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 September 2011):
Does it matter? You are married, your vows should count for something.
Seems to me that you are hoping there is more to it.
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