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writes:Me and my boyfriend have phone sex alot because we have a long distance relationship so it's something that we do and often enjoy. My boyfriend is the strong muscle built work out all the time macho aggressive tough guy. He loves females and is addicted to sex and porn and is overly sexual with a high sex drive/peak in his middle aged 30's. One day he shocked the hell out of me, in the middle of some hot and steamy phone sex he just blantly said the words "do u want me to suck his d*ck" sounding alittle out of breath and highly aroused. It definitly caught me off guard but i played it off well. First i asked him to repeat himself a few times because i couldnt believe my ears, and he did, i paused for a second in disbelief and them said "go head" i pretend like i was turned on by it to see how far he would actually go and if he was serious and he was he acted it out perfectly with all the sound effects moans and nasty talk about giving the man oral he even said something about having sex with the guy. the reason why im asking this question and not just assuming is because my boyfriend is not the typical normal guy he likes to think and be outside the box and he knows I'm the same. We always come up with new crazy kinky wild creative fantasies to get off on. That particular time he had a created a new fantasy of seeing me be with another guy and he decided to join in unexpectly. We both do that alot we have fantasies about things that turns us on but would never do in real life. He would never want to see me with another guy he's to jealous....he told me that he's not gay but it's hard to believe since now that's one offer his favorite roleplays he gets so graphic and detailed about it and hardcore disgusting with no holding back the only thing he hasn't said was he to do the man but he's said everything else that comes with it. I'm wondering is this just a weird fantasy or is he gay/bisexual. How can he be turned on so much by something that he would never do, has done, or think about doing plus when we have phone sex he really ejaculates he doesn't just do it for talk but he did tell e that he does it and likes it only because head turned on because I'm turned on not because he's gay . Does that make sense? Is that even possible? Lol, is he gay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): He could be bi curious. He may just be highly interested in other men sexually but too may inhibitions hold him back. I would tread carefully bc a lot of men like blowjobs from men and they consider themselves straight. I think he is bi curious and trusts u. If he ever engaged in anything it would probably be a threesome where two men run a train on u. And if that turns him on he may want the guy to actually touch or suck him next time. Unfortunately only time will tell if he is kind of sort of. Personally I'm lesbian, and have met several straight women who wanted sex with me and they have men. So I know if women are like that then men are no different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe did mention once that if he ever did something like that he would rather prefer a shemale because atleast they appear to look exactly like a female on the outside. I was shocked when he said that but even still I'm still confused about his sexuality maybe he doesn't want to come straight out and tell but I would like to know the truth. He's been in situations before where he's only been up against males like...jail. he could b what u call a DL down low. Something like that is important for anyone to know in a serious relationship with another person because anything can happen. To me no normal heterosexual guy would say things like that if he weren't alittle homo, I'm not sure. I would like to hear from a homosexual guy point of view. I appreciate the answers and they were of some help thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2011): Hey hun I'm not too positive there's a chance that he might be but you insinuated that your turned on by it so he's going to try to turn you on. When people are aroused they think crazy thoughts. He might not be bi-sexual just turned on in the heat of the moment and now that he thinks your turned on by it he's going to keep on at it. If he keeps insisting he's gay he may not be, then again he might just be turned on by it. There are things (not even going to mention) that im turned on by it doesn't make me into that person. Don't drill him about it but talk to him about it. He might be bi-sexual. If so If your faithful too each other and you love him who cares? I hope I could help.Also next time, just be honest it works out a lot better.
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (12 September 2011):
 He's probably heteroflexible, which basically means he's MOSTLY heterosexual but enjoys things like fantasies and/or porn with men in it.
And that's perfectly normal and fine. NOTHING to be concerned about -At All-. His sexuality should really be no worry to you, since he's with -you-.
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