A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm a submissive lesbian in a relationship with a dominant lesbian. I really enjoy being submissive to her. Although its not the macho-sadistic (I may have misspelled it) type relationship. Im a femme lesbian and love being a mushy sexy sensitive emotional feminine woman and i'd never change that. But here's the thing, I find myself thinking about us romantically doing sexual acts together. During these imaginations, I am a gay effeminate man and my girlfriend is an aggressive top. This excites me greatly and I'm often thinking about it. I have no desire to be a man, I really don't even like men enough to pose as one. So why do I get turned on at the thought of this? Is this Normal? Last night I told my girlfriend and she said its not normal. What person happy in their own skin get turned on by being someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): You can be happy in your own skin and still fantasize of being someone else. People role play all the time and have no self esteem issues...Don't overanalyze it. Unless you have doubts about your sexual preference and that is why yo find this fantasy alarming.Why don't you like men? As a lesbian you do not need to dislike the opposite sex, your preference is your preference. Maybe there is a deeper issue with men?
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