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Archived questions from: October, 2016 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Why the personal questions about my body? Does he have feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - I have this best guy friend, I have feelings for him, everyone swears he has feelings for me. Last night when we were talking (which we do almost every day) he started asking extremely personal questions about my body. I asked him if he had been ...

I may have lost the love of my life and perfect girl to commitment phobia! Now that I want her back, she's completely blanked me out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

31 October 2016 (M) - I think Ive ruined things with the love of my life Ive been with my girl 8 years since school she's absolutely stunning that's why I fancied her initially I just wanted to have sex with her but we were 16 she ended up making me wait 8 months a...

I've never had feelings like this before, but I'm getting whiplash!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2970 days ago

31 October 2016 (F) - Ok, so here it is: A couple months ago i met this guy, and it was instant attraction from both sides. Physical attraction that i have NEVER felt before, but what was strange is that there was the emotional attraction as well. We are very good ...

We had planned to go to a party but my behaviour seems to have scared him off!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

30 October 2016 (F) - i was a fat awkward teenager, and was new to a school where i got bullied by a guy and girl , a lot. But i moved on and let things go.Recently after 10 years the guy got back in touch with me.Initially i did not feel like talking to him, because i ...

I'm dating my friend's ex wife and don't know how to tell him but if I don't she will!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

29 October 2016 (M) - Greg [age:40] was my [age:27] roommate for 5 months and we have been friends ever since. He would tell me about how he was madly in love with his wife Crystal [Age:30], but they fought too much, that's why they were trying separation for a couple...

I've fallen in love with this guy, but after our complicated past together I don't know where we stand. How do I handle seeing him again ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

28 October 2016 (F) - Hi guys... I'll start from the beginning. I have met someone at university two yeas ago who I have a very long history with ever since then. We met in our second year after he just enrolled.We officially met at a party I was throwing in my h...

Girls seem to show interest in me, but why don't they want to date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

28 October 2016 (M) - So I meet this girl at work and we started talking and I was surprised at how easy and effortless it was to talk to her. We seemed to share many same hobbies and stuff. She seemed to like me and was single at the time, anyways while we were talking ...

My cheating partner found out I got my girlfriend married, up and left her husband. I can't believe how she has changed!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

27 October 2016 (M) - Ive got a problem story that I have bought on myself and im not looking for sympathy as I know ive done wrong.7.5 years ago my friend and his new girlfriend came to my house and for some silly reason me and her hit it off from the start.aA few ...

Should I try dating her again? She's a good friend but she's played me in the past

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

27 October 2016 (M) - I am unsure what to choose. I have know a girl for over 4 years. In the first year I met her, I knew she was seeing guys (mostly footballers), and basically having fun. I bided my time to wait until she stopped seeing guys and wanted something...

How do you get over someone who is sexually gratifying and stunning?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2974 days ago

27 October 2016 (F) - I was dating a guy but know now he's not right for me. I ended it with him. He's dating other women, not exclusive though. I liked him and he was the first guy I had sex multiple times with. However, I just know deep down he's not for me because ...

Should I now offer to pay more rent when my mother come to live with us, temporarily? My mother and I will share a room

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2976 days ago

26 October 2016 (F) - Hi! I'm currently living with two friends, but my mother is going to move in with us from another country, so we are all going to live together for a few months until my mother and I move to a place for just the two of us. Meanwhile me and my mo...

Should I hang in there in this relationship? Or just express my feelings and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

25 October 2016 (F) - Sooooo it seems my estranged bf and I are done done. Short backstory, we've been friends for 10 years, we dated for 3 1/2 and last year I broke up with him. I was frustrated with our development, i didn't feel supported with help with bills and the ...

I'd like to keep him as a friend but would like to know what I did wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

24 October 2016 (F) - Aunts/uncles Met this guy at work. Cutting long story short. He noticed me first . I did not find him attractive to begin. Then I spoke to him one day and he smiled andhe melted my heart. The flirting continued with very few words . I went on ...

Do I keep things to myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

24 October 2016 (F) - First off thanks to anyone who takes the time to answer this for me!and sorry for the lengh. Some background: I have been with my boyfriend 7 years my best friend (female) started dating his best friend (male) 2 years later. I'm close with both ...

Is she into me? I just can't tell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

24 October 2016 (M) - Ok so there's this girl at school she's gorgeous, tries hard at school, works at the animal shelter, she's super nice, everything she does is just adorable, she's also really quiet and shy, she's the definition of an introvert. We're like opposites ...

My guy friend held my hand what does it mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and and one of my guy friends were on a group trip last night and he started to hold my hand. What does this mean? What do I say? What do I do?...

Crushing on my best friend for 11 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - So I've had a strong connection with a friend ever since we met in the first year of high school,(11 years old) let's call him Matt. Unfortunately my older brother died shortly after starting high school, and when I returned after a 3 week break I ...

Are there any strategies to deal with my reactions to the behaviour of his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

23 October 2016 (F) - Ive been with my partner 3 and a half years. Whilst i met his family quite early on, other than a handful of occasions i havent socialised with his friends. When i questioned him about this he is told me that the partners of his friends still se...

Why does he greet me this way when we arent friends....?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

22 October 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts, I am sorry for the long post but it gets easier... I promise.. Me and a guy were good friends for a year. Well, he became my friend by just "Randomly" thinking up and adding my number to his whatsapp list. He texted me and ...

My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

21 October 2016 (M) - A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...

How can I escape this loneliness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

21 October 2016 (F) - How can I get out of my depression. For the last 7 months Ive been hit with several bad episodes (it's been a rough year) - my relationship ended (it was a short one but still affected the way he acted towards me) he was not a caring man. My work ...

I had two great male friends but they have dropped me as a friend! I’m heartbroken. Leave them be? Or keep trying?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

20 October 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. I had two male friends and I say had because neither of them will talk to me anymore..:( Things got a bit awkward in terms of friendship because they both told me they liked me. The first one; he asked to meet up and I made ...

I feel I’m losing my “big brother" and it’s painful! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2855 days ago

20 October 2016 (F) - Hey guys, Rach here. I'm a 19-year-old girl and this question is about my big brother-type person. We're really not siblings, just friends, but I consider him my big brother. I'll make this as brief as possible (tho tbh the story is pretty long) -- ...

Am I right to have these trust issues?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2984 days ago

20 October 2016 (F) - A few weeks ago, my boyfriend went to his local pub, and he saw a married woman that he knew that day. I wasn't there at the time. She asked him to help her pick songs on the jukebox and then he said he danced with her. He said it wasn't intimate ...

Where to now? Is my married loved a narcissist? I feel I can no longer trust him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

18 October 2016 (M) - I had a year long affair with a married man. I am his tennant in the house that he rents out. He left his wife just before Christmas and came to live with me and my kids in the house. During our affair we had a secret bank accounts, and phone nu...

Do you think it's unreasonable for a husband to request that his wife not kiss mutual male friends hello and goodbye on the lips?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

17 October 2016 (M) - Do you think it's unreasonable for a husband to request that his wife not kiss mutual male friends hello and goodbye on the lips? We only have one male friend who does this. He does it to other wives as well. He had been a mutual friend for 10 ye...

My boyfriend always invites his friend to tag along

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - hiya ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 years we have a 2 year old daughter. the problem is whenever we are supposed to spend any time together he always invites his mate along. we were supposed to be spending bonfire night together just me him a...

My friend is accusing me of being a shitty friend because I like the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

16 October 2016 (F) - This is a very complex situation, so please bare with me as this story might be a little long-winded. In August, my friend Leslie started hanging out with this guy, Ian, she met through Tinder. They were talking to each other off-and-on for n...

Is it wrong of me to be upset with the way my boyfriend treated me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2987 days ago

15 October 2016 (F) - Hello, I would like to seek your opinion on the following situation and please let me know if I over reacted. My plane had just landed home from a trip to visit my boyfriend. We had a wonderful visit and he couldn't bear to see me leave. We had plan...

Should I go back to hanging out with my old friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

15 October 2016 (F) - My old friends who brought the worst out in me want to hang out again - they are insecure high maintenance girls that tear each other down and celebrate at the club every weekend and drink champagne. Since turning 30 I stopped - I realized that I ...

I've agreed to be friends, but he is pulling away from me.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

14 October 2016 (F) - So, there is this guy i used to deal with but now we are supposed to be friends. He has been begging me for friendship for the longest once we established that our relationship couldn't go any further due to our military rankings. Initially,, i was ...

Our wish to adopt a child has provoked some negative reactions, how do we deal with them?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

14 October 2016 (F) - My husband and I have decided to adopt. I was surprised by the negative reaction of some of our friends! I was prepared for the usual fears and prejudices (it's not your flesh and blood, you can never love him the way you would your own etc.) b...

Do I ask how my former student is doing? I don't want to overstep any boundaries!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

14 October 2016 (F) - Thank you in advance for all that take the time to give their advice. Not a relationship question however I really would like some opinions. Last year I worked briefly with a student during their last year at school. That same student lived directly ...

Why would my friend lie and say he didn't know my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

14 October 2016 (M) - Andre [32,M] has been my best friend for almost 15 years, we lived together at Arizona, we live together now(only temporarily though). The reason I say temporarily because I have been dating this girl [31,F] for a year now, and we have been tal...

He's not in the least interested so why does he want me in his life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

13 October 2016 (F) - Hey everyone. a few month ago i went on a date with a guy we then decided to be in a relationship . long story short he wasted my time made excuses not to see me and wasted my time i said its over and dumped him . he wanted to be friends so i kep...

My boyfriend has a very inappropriate colleague who I'm extremely uncomfortable with; he says he'll avoid her but doesn't match his words

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

13 October 2016 (F) - My fiancé works with this girl who I accepted as a friend of ours and as part of our group. He had told me that she had displayed scandalous behaviours in the past (had tried to sleep with him while he had a girlfriend and told him she would never ...

My boyfriend cant make up his mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago. A month after we broke up he went out with one of our mutual friends and of course that bothered me but I just kept telling myself if they are happy then I'm happy. A month into that relationship they broke ...

Being strung by my best friend... who has a girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2989 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Hello DearCupid :) I'm struggling with being strung by my best friend. He has a very attractive girlfriend. They have been together for almost 10 years now and I have always respected him for it. He was never an option for me until we screwe...

I thought I was a good friend, am I not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

12 October 2016 (F) - Am I a bad friend? Hi, I'm on my 4th year at uni and I've found myself without real friends or rather no one close to talk to. I stopped talking to my two best friends because they were messed up to me and I keep thinking it is my fault and I'm lone...

Am I being mistreated? Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2982 days ago

11 October 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 2 years. I don’t know if this is emotional abuse or if there is something I can do to fix the problem. This morning I had gone to make a shake for him and when I poured the material inside ...

Is he into the occult? Are black rings significant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

10 October 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts I made friends with a guy through facebook. We started chatting , all friendly tho , then I was going through his Facebook likes and things. I saw he liked a lot of Facebook pages such as Free masonry , Mystic Order, Wiccan rit...

Why do people think that if you are alone that something is wrong with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2995 days ago

9 October 2016 (F) - I know that I am attractive with skills and a sense of humour that inspires people but most of the time I would like to keep a few people close to me. I think it is safe to say that I am an introvert. My boyfriend of 6 months yesterday asked me a ...

Did I scare him off ? ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

9 October 2016 (F) - Dear Aunts please advise me. I met a guy at a cafe. Everytime I go in he stared at me. I started to fancy him too and we would stare and smile at each other. I broke the ice and we exchanged numbers. I hinted going out on a light date but he b...

I broke up with my boyfriend because of the distance but I really miss him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2995 days ago

9 October 2016 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend (newly ex) when I was 17 and senior in high school when he was a freshman in college. We have been dating for over three years, long distance but can occasionally visit each other on the weekends and breaks for ...

How do I allow myself to be vulnerable and work through fear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2850 days ago

8 October 2016 (F) - Hi all, I was on here in the spring talking about how a really abusive relationship left me sour and I was just doing the friends with benefits thing for awhile. Well- I met someone. He is a kinder man than I could ever have dreamed of. We b...

I've lost my best friend because of his jealous girlfriend

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2994 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - So I've been best friends with a guy since grade school. I haven't seen a lot of him this last year because I've been really busy studying for important exams, but we always kept in regular contact. In that time, he got a girlfriend. I bumped into ...

Will he ever make me a priority in his life? Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - We met online, he said that he thought I was a homebody by my profile. Technically I am - I spend most of my weekdays Netflixing and Gaming, I just like to do things once in awhile. When I was in college I was in a two clubs and a Sorority and thr...

He ended his relationship for me but I don't think I want to date, just want to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2997 days ago

7 October 2016 (F) - I befriended a guy at the gym I initially developed feelings for, but discovered he had a gf. My feelings for him eventually died down. However my friends think that he's interested in me. I flat out denied it. There was a rumor going around that we ...

Why no kisses? Why are guys so hesitant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2993 days ago

6 October 2016 (F) - Went on a site that is for people looking for fun. Met one guy but I felt no attraction but he great to talk to. I wasn't bothered if I saw him again. He said I knew where he was and I said the same to him so I thought he would get in touch . H...

I'm hurt that my friend lied and deceived me over a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2998 days ago

5 October 2016 (F) - I still can't get over my anger and hatred for this ''friend'' who lied and deceived me over a man I was very close too. This girl pretended she was my friend. She said she had a boyfriend, but was hanging round this man (I was close too) all...