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writes:Aunts/unclesMet this guy at work. Cutting long story short. He noticed me first . I did not find him attractive to begin. Then I spoke to him one day and he smiled andhe melted my heart. The flirting continued with very few words . I went on holiday and on my return he was quick to give me his number. A few lame txts about work and how tired he was. Nothing flirty .One day I texted him and asked to meet up. He was clearly shocked that I made the move and now has gone cold on me as if he was never interested. This has really hurt meI know he has been facebook stalking me as he had blocked me even though we are not friends. I did if first so he probably felt offended. I have also deleted my whatsapp as when ever I was on line he would come on too but not send me a message. I would like to keep this guy as a friend and plan to ask what I did wrong. If he still wishes to act stupid I will cut mg loses.Any words of wisdom ?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2016):
 This question keeps getting posted but from different locations and different age groups. Am not sure if it is a true situation or if you are just seeing if you get the best advice. I would say that you cannot know he was facebook stalking you or that he blocked you. He may have been on whatsapp talking to other people, if you are not online you cannot see if he is online or not. I think you should leave him be.
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reader, muiga  +, writes (25 October 2016):
I think he is creepy,but I think blocking bit is obvious,when you block someone to it would be a miracle not to be blocked back karma got that covered,and from the uneasy relationship,i don't think friendship will work
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reader, N91  +, writes (25 October 2016):
 Very bizarre behaviour which doesn't really make sense. I'd just get on with your life and ignore him from here on out.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (25 October 2016):
 Leave him be.
He isn't friend material and wasn't really interested in anything, just wanted to add a number of a girl for his phone.
Don't waste time or effort on this one.
He is a dud.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2016): I dont get it: you blocked him first on FB, and then he blocked you?
WHy do you want to keep him as a friend? What kind of a friend he is if he blocks FB and has no contact with you?
Also, he might not come up on whats up because you are there, he might just be there before you or goes there to contact someone, or reads his friends messages. I can see my friends on whatsup all the time, but it does not mean they need to text me all the time.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (25 October 2016):
 Honestly, he sounds awful. There was absolutely no reason to block you on Facebook, there was no reason for him to be shocked when you'd made the first move, there was no reason for him to behave like the way he's been doing.
Please don't insist on keeping him as a friend or giving him any more importance by asking him what you've done wrong. This guy thinks he's the cat's whiskers. A friend is someone that you can rely on, with whom, as they say, you can dare to be yourself. Do you really think this guy is worth your time? He's insulted you enough. Just completely ignore him and behave like he never existed for you.
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