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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

How do you feel about social media? It seems to cause problems for me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - How do you guys feel about social media, especially Facebook? Do you think it's worth it to have one? Has it ever caused any problems for you? I'm asking this because it seems to cause a lot of insecurity within myself and other problems. I am n...

Is the guy I'm dating a sex addict?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I am concerned that the guy I met online and I am currently dating is possibly a sex addict! I've ignored some obscenities and red flags but now I am confused!!! I like him very much but I can't help but to be concerned with his preoccupation with ...

My friend has changed. Is he becoming more "manly" through a subconscious need to fit in, or is this the "real him"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I'm a little confused and hurt as to why my male friend seems very distant. We have been friends for about 4 years, but became closer after we kept in touch after we finish college. And NO before anyone pipes up I have no feelings for him I have a ...

He is badmouthing me to mutual friends. Should I confront him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I had a falling out with a guy friend some months back. I discovered he had feelings for me (I had feelings for him too), things became complicated and our friendship ended on a very sour note. He ended up blocking me on all social networks. I ...

Why did he start playing games? How should I respond?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy on tinder and we started talking and hit it off right away... turns out we have tons of mutual friends. He was nothing but reliable and up for texting for hours. I found it nice that he even called me as most guys just text these ...

How do I get over losing my best friend? He's rejected me and moved on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - I don’t know how to deal with the rejection of my best friend. He and I were best friends from 13 until 22. I have always been a good friend to him, been there for him, run to him when he has needed me, and even when he has closed the door on me wh...

What does it mean if she's afraid when I tell her that I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

30 January 2014 (M) - I have the misfortune of loving a 55 year old woman who was traumatically, emotionally abused in a 30 year long marriage, until she became so frightened of him she managed to leave and divorce him. She is now divorced for 3 years. She was also ...

Can attraction develop after some distance between 2 people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - You tell a guy you've liked him for ages. He's really flattered but admits he doesn't share any deeper feelings. Apparently he's started seeing someone at the moment, you hear from a friend. And 3 months later, they've broken up. Because he's ...

Taken advantage of in business with friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi all, I have a problem with a friend that I have known since I was 12 yrs old. Recently she opened a shop and as I have a manufacturing business she asked me if I had any excess stock that she could put in her store on consignment. For those w...

Is she just too independent? She doesn't seem to care about me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Is it Ok to want to be alone all the time? I have a friend (a friendship only) who loves her own company, which us fine, we all do at times.. (she lives alone as do I) but its to the point now where she really geniunely likes being al...

Things aren't the way they used to be with my boyfriend. Should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 months. When him and I first met and first got into a relationship, things were great. He made a lot of effort to talk with me and to hang out, we spent a lot of time together, and he just seemed ...

Would you consider this emotionally cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3946 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I'm posting on here about my friends behaviour with my other friend who's a guy. I introduced them a while back and she and him had a fling, not so long ago, but it ended cause he got a girlfriend. However, even though he's now with someone new, ...

I'm confused ! everytime I tell him about a guy he get mad & not talk to me for days !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi, i've a littel problem that i Really wanna share... So, i've known this guy since september at the day of his birthday, he send me a friend request on facebook and ince that we became closer and closer, he is the rock, he saved me a lot of t...

How do I cope with strong attraction to a co-worker who I have no intention of getting involved with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Hi I need some advice on how to deal with a situation. Firstly I am 23 and do not intend to act on my feelings. So I have fallen for a guy I work with. He seems a lovely, genuine guy and I very much enjoy working with him. To paint a pictur...

Facebook is causing problems in my relationship, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Through out the years, I have had a lot of bad experiences with Facebook so I deleted mine a long time ago. My boyfriend has been using his again lately. The reason this upsets me is because he has been talking to some of his female friends on ...

In love with a woman who's in a relationship and it's driving me crazy. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3945 days ago

29 January 2014 (M) - Hello to all, I have a problem and I could need some advice. Can't talk with anyone around me about this problem.... Eight months ago I added an old classmate on Facebook. We started chatting on Facebook. She is in a relationship (7 years). ...

I know I'm just being jealous and my friend is just having fun but I feel like I'm being cheated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Last night my friend and I went out on the town, I dressed up, put on a nice dress, did my makeup properly and for once made an effort. My friend came out in jeans and a t-shirt. She's put her boyfriend back in the dating zone (he still loves ...

We're not together anymore but we still act like a couple and have sex... it's starting to get to me. Advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Last month my boyfriend decided that we "take a break" (or in other words: break up) and we've been together for maybe more than three years, but we've known each other much longer than that because we originally were best friends. Him and I have b...

He acts like he likes me but says he doesn't. Was he lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I think he lied to me. I have known this guy for about 4 years, and we had to spend a bit of time together for work. Anyway, so he is naturally flirty, all the girls like him, and I do too, he's a bit cocky to be honest, and knows he's hot. Anyw...

I'm worried about my friend being lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) - Hi all, Lately I have been very busy but I have a new man in my life. He is so nice to me and attentive. He tells me he loves me and misses me every day. I recently put some space between me and my guy friend because he has some anxiety and mental ...

Is he interested in me or does he only like me as a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy a few weeks ago. We clicked because we are both majoring in music and we both are passionate about art and enjoy deep conversations. I love how intelligent and creative he is and he's open about his feelings and that's refreshing to ...

I feel his loyalty lies with his friends! Any one else in the same situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years is the most caring and thoughtful person when it comes to just us - however this soon changes when his friends are involved. I made a huge effort with them including them on my nights out, letting them stay at my house, c...

How much is too much in weekends away with friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Can anyone help me as a married girl of 32 decide where to draw the line on whats acceptable in marriage in regards to weekends away with friends. My partner has always been selfish and spent new year with his mates in edinburgh. I was working so ...

I discovered that I'm bi? should I come out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I have a huge crush on my friend. Its my second crush. My friend is a girl, so that means im bisexual. Should I tell anyone or wait? ...

I'd do anything for this guy even though he hates me and probably was never even a true friend to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Ok so I've been struggling with this for a few years now I and just want your guys opinions. I was a freshman in high school I didn't have many friends and was really quiet. Well when I met...this guy I immediately wanted to get to know him. This ...

Should I move in with a friend to get away from troubled family situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - Hey! I'm 20 and I have a friend that offered me to move with him to New York. Even though I only knew him since early September late august, I consider him as a brother. We talk from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Right now I live in ...

Why do girls suddenly distance themselves from a guy, when things seem to be going great?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

27 January 2014 (M) - Dear cupid I have experienced during my dating that sometimes girls suddenly distance themselves without any warning or explanation whilst you are dating a girl. (She doesn't like anyone else and she's single ). Why the sudden change in attitude w...

How do you make friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I'm in a situation where I'm trying to make friends but failing. My old friends don't have children so I think that is part of the issue. I also live with my parents and they don't like to have people over and when they do, they make rules as if I ...

NEVER will do anything for a woman unless there is sexual intention involved.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I had a discussion with a friend today about my upcoming trip, and she said that men NEVER will do anyhting for a woman unless there is sexual intention involved. I told her that I had and have plenty of guy friends. She asked me to think under w...

BF's weird relationship with his best mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3950 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend of a year and 3 months has a friend that he has become really close with in the past 3 months, it's a guy friend and they've become basically best mates. At first they saw eachother maybe once a week to chill and play fifa and ...

My boss is not as friendly as he used to be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - I'll keep this brief. I started working for this company about 9 months ago. A friend of mine is the executive there so he helped me out. The boss of my department showed me around the first day, normally it's another person that performs the tour...

My friends arent nice to my boyfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

26 January 2014 (F) - I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. Two of my best friends despise him but I really am fond of him, he has been not wanting to come over if they are there because they are really not very nice to him, I've tried talking ...

Is my boyfriend being too friendly with her? He says he doesn't want to be mean to her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

25 January 2014 (F) - About a week ago my boyfriend met a girl through some mutual friends. My boyfriend says this girl flirted with him like crazy as soon as she was introduced to him and even told my boyfriend that he seemed like an amazing guy and that she really ...

How do I confront my housemate about his ridiculous obsession with my mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

25 January 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I really appreciate the opportunity to speak to someone about my worries, i have never openly discussed my problems with an agony aunt before. One of my housemates, currently a student, has an unnatural and exaggerated attrac...

How to friendzone a hookup?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

25 January 2014 (F) - I met this guy at a party last semester and we really hit it off!!! we hung out a few times and ended up having sex twice... unfortunatly the sex was terrible and his pen15 was ridiculously small... it makes me really sad to say but it kinda ruined ...

Fallen for my best friend, now he is being stubborn and inflexible

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - I have known my best male friend for about 6 years. During this time he's been my rock through ups and downs including tumultuous relationships. I live in a different country from where I grew up (where he lives) a lot. I have often sensed that he ...

Is it inappropriate for a woman to give fragrance as a gift to a man who she isn't in a relationship with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

24 January 2014 (M) - Is it inappropriate for a woman to give fragrance as a gift to a man who she isn't in a relationship with? I had an argument with my girlfriend when she saw a type of aftershave that I wouldn't normally buy at my place and asked where I got it. I ...

I quit drinking and now my friend is acting weird and I feel uncomfortable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

24 January 2014 (F) - Dear all, This is not a relationship problem, rather a freindship related problem. Your views would be much appreciated. Not too long ago I gave up alcohol for good for various reasons, such as I used to binge drink, drink to drown my sorrows...

How can I win her over? Should I even try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

24 January 2014 (M) - Question: A girl I really like recently told me she's going to pursue a long-distance relationship with a guy she's only recently met. Can I win her over? Should I even try? She and I went on three dates. The first two went really well. On the sec...

Am I wrong for wanting to wait around for the right person?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - I am 24yrs old female and all my friends are getting married, settling down etc. The thing is, it's never really bothered me because I am all about finding the right person. Some of my friends however have recently starting saying that I am...

Should I tell my guy that I slept with a friend while we were broken up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - I'm in a messed up situation that I can't see out without losing my boyfriend who I have been with for three years. Basically, last September I had a miscarriage during my 9th week of pregnancy. We had only known for 2 weeks when I lost our baby...

How can I improve my body language?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Not a r/ship question but hope you all can help. Appreciate it. How to not give off a negative "vibe"? I understand body language, it's so obvious at times, you know.. folding yr arms may mean being closed off, uncrossed arms being more open, ...

Fed up of my boyfriend's friend flirting with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Hey everyone I have a question. Well, me and my boyfriend have a mutual friend who is a girl. She's known my boyfriend before him and I even got together, and she is more his friend than mine. I don't know her that well, but have talked to her an...

He put food on my plate, does that mean something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

22 January 2014 (F) - I have liked one of my guy friend for three years already. Whenever we played the game truth or dare at social events he would admit in truth that he liked someone. I decided to ask him one time who he liked..and he went completely silent on me. I ...

My best friend always goes after guys I like!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - My best friend always goes after the guys I like. Knowing this, I try not to tell her who I like. This guy Cruz and I made it obvious that we had a thing. One step from dating. I wasn't sure that I had feelings for him until two weeks ago, during ...

Her dating our friend's brother on the sly seems like a betrayal

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - So, this is not necessarily about me. It is about my best friends Elen and Leila. Leila and I have been close for four years, and then we met Elen, and have all three been close for 3 years. I've even stayed with Leila and her family for a couple of ...

Venting to my friends leaves trouble behind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I've recently noticed that I tend to cause unnecessary drama in my relationships and I don't know how to fix it. When I'm in a relationship and we argue or bicker about simple mundane things I tend to go around and tell my friends what happens. By ...

Why would my Facebook friend make this comment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I am in my 40s and the question I want to ask is not actually a love question but I am querying a comment someone put to me on facebook. A friend posted about cheap travel on facebook and I replied about how cheaply I had travelled as wel...

She has a boyfriend, so why does she keep telling me I'm sweet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 January 2014 (M) - Women are very confusing to me My friend has been telling me I'm very sweet lately when we talk or text. Last time I texted her , she told me I'm sweet like 4 times. I know she is going through a tough time but still. She talks to me when I'm ...

I'm so lost. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - A guy I really liked asked me out over text but i got scared and said no. After that i got depressed and as a sort of anti depressant talked to a guy. i fell in love and i was sure he loved me. He didn't. He felt nothing for me, i was just his ...