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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Everything is going wrong right now .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - How do you handle it when everything seems to go wrong and you are under so much stress? I don't want to get into too much detail but over the past few months I have gone through a whole lot. My parents have never been there for me and don'...

Can somebody tell me what is in his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, am sorry this may be a bit long but am confused and need help.it started one and half year ago I met this cool guy in my college we are classmates we donot have close friendship we just help each other with things related to colle...

If you were me, what would you do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - Hey Cupids, Not sure what I am asking for here but I wanted to share something with you. I have a friend who I was close with for the last 3 years, let’s call him Ed. We became close friends after issues happening in our lives made us need suppo...

I don't feel comfortable not being wanted around his friends and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year ive only met his mom once and that was when we first started dating. I've only met 3 of his friends. He won't take me around his mom or his other friends. He always says something like his mom ...

My ex went off on me because I'm seeing his married friend. I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F) - where do i start its a long story , iv been trying to get a hold of my x for the longest time we did not part well, anyway we had been together for 4 yrs friends befor that so finly did reach him we stared talking again he said he would come and ...

Chat room Addiction. Please help! :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - dear cupid this is not about relationships. its about my chat addiction. i got into a chatroom several years back. now i seem not to be able to get off it. i have some friends and some people i hate there. i seem to be always focused on going to...

He likes me, he likes me not .... which one is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hey I’m just started my new just as bar maid in this pub where I live. Been there about a month now I half of the guys there have been hitting on me that work there but I’m not that interested in them then one day when I was working the Friday shift ...

I want to study and have a career but I am scared of the changes I have to make!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

27 November 2013 (F) - I have this guy in my life i feel for, he is really a nice guy and lives overseas we have met a couple of times, We talk on phone and he likes me too. I want to marry him but he is unstable financially so he wants me to get independent earn on my ...

Should I stop flirting and let my friend have him since she's been dying for her first bf for ages? Should I tell my friend I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and I have a crush on a boy 3 months my younger (I don't usually opt for youngers I think its weird). He's in the RAF and he's a very funny, mature and caring guy who makes me smile. The only problem is that one of my friends likes him too. ...

How can I get someone to return my things without making a scene?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I lent a friend (Nick) a DVD box set about 18 months ago. I then broke up with my boyfriend (it was awful) and I needed to go down the no contact route. This meant that I didn't see Nick nearly as much anymore because I was no longer going to the ...

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues w...

I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got t...

My ex seemed to get too close. Does he still have a thing for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Basically, my friends and I went to this event called Midnight Rodeo. It's a country place/bar where you dance two-step and things like that. It was for my friend's birthday party; she went to drink for her 21st birthday so we separated once w...

My boyfriend tells his best female friend that she is pretty and they talk about graphic sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for around six months now and we are very happy. He has a female best friend that he is very close to and says how much he loves her. He openly admits they talk about sex quite grafically and tell eachother when they ...

How do I show him I"m interested without making our friendship awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Im starting to really fall for one of my close friends. Were together all the time, we share the same group of friends and I was never interested in him in this way but a few weeks ago at our friends halloween party he said goodbye to me and when he ...

Am I being too insensitive to his feelings or is he too insensitve to mine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - Here is my issue, and maybe I'm being too sensitive and insecure. I am pregnant by my boyfriend of 2 years who has lived a few hours away. He moved in with me a week ago and ever since then its seemed so different. He got a job here in my state ...

Really starting to fall for one of my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

Am I about to be used in revenge sex with a longtime friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - This is a long and complex story of infidelity and revenge sex. So here's the short version. My friend had been cheating on his wife unknown to me. I've know them both since childhood. I kept our friendship at a respectful distance because I could ...

What do I do about this petty friend drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - I recently moved to a new town, and soon after I met a woman (Helen), who asked if I wanted to meet for coffee. That was yhree months ago. Two weeks later she introduced me to her landlady, Emma. I started going round to their house for a cup of ...

Am I wrong, or is she just being childish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4011 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Well ok me once again. There's this girl and me and her was pretty cool with each other, but we didn't really talk to each other, but we didn't have no problems either. Until one day I guess she got mad because I was talking to a dude she once lik...

Do you think he might be a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - Hi folks, I go to this club to sing and I have a lot of friends there and enjoy spending time with them. There are a few guys and women I talk to, all different ages and one girl there is my friend and she is much younger and has a new bo...

Gf and I broke up a year ago, been single ever since. Am I getting too desperate for attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys basically split up with my girlfriend over a year ago after 4 years together I was devastated and still am not healed, I have slept with 4 girls since then and tried to turn them into relationships but the spark was never there so it turned ...

I thought my Co-worker was just a good friend. So why has he been asking me explicit sexual questions?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - I've thought this guy at my work and I were just friends. We talk a lot, about random stuff usually. Yesterday we were texting and he was asking me when I'm going to have kids and everything. I said I don't know. Anyway so we were texting more and...

Am I being unreasonable to want to keep this friendship? Or is my boyfriend right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

24 November 2013 (F) - Ok I have an issue with my live-in boyfriend (of 5 years) that I need some advice on please. I have a female friend at work. We work in the same department and we have become quite close and have started seeing each other outside of work a bit to...

Don't want to lose her as a friend but she has inappropriate feelings for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Dear friends, I have a female friend at workplace (younger and single). These days I felt she has an interest to me thou she know I am married and have 2 kids. I have shown her my family photo too. As things proceeded I understood things are serio...

My closest girl friend started ignoring me out of nowhere..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - For a while I've been friends with this girl, probably for 5 months. We started hanging out a lot more, right after she broke up with her boyfriend. I started getting feelings for this girl and she started getting really close to me, but the ...

The guy who had a crush on me doesn't even want to be friends anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (?) - Okay so I'll tell my problem as a story just to make things easier. "Annie" was friends with "Wilbur" since freshman year of high school. Annie liked another guy named "Elias" who pretty much ruined her life Sophomore year by telling everyone...

Is he not interested in me? How can I get him to step up his game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I'm interested in this guy but I don't think he is as interested in me. My gut instincts and his actions (to me) suggest that he doesn't reciprocate my enthusiasm. Back story: I'm in university and he used to go to my university two years ago bu...

How do I keep an older man interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - I really like this guy who is around 8 years older than me. Hes a great guy, has all the qualities I'm looking for but IDK how to keep his interest. I feel like he's losing interest even though he says hes not he's just been a little busy with work, ...

Do I go to the party or make an excuse not to go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I need some advice on what to do. I was seeing someone from work for about 5 months. He left 2 months after we got together and i left a month later. We were a tight group at work and we both still see the gang we worked with regularly. At first we ...

What can I do really quickly to improve my skin? I am attending a wedding and I have too many pimples and other issues.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - Hi friends. My problem may sound really silly but I really need some help please. I have a marriage ceremony to attend day after tomorrow and I have soooo many pimples on my forehead. I understand that having pimples is normal but it’s too much and...

Is this likely to be true? Will I end up alone as a cat woman, with no one who ever wants me? How do I find someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I can't say this to anybody I know because it really does sounds so pathetic and I know it shouldn't bother me this much.. So I am 18 years old, and I have never had a proper boyfriend (I.e someone I can connect to ect.). And it is starting...

Did I overreact to comments about my weight?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - I think I might have over reacted. I was texting back and forwards with this guy I had not dated yet. Everything was going well until he made this comment ~i don't usually date girls like you, but you look decent~ when i asked him what did he mean ...

How can I be friends with an ex lover ????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I am unhappily married, live under the same roof as husband but we each have our own bedrooms. I have been having an affair with a man in his mid 40's for 3.5 years. He also is married but separated, he lives very close to me ( within 5 minutes...

The guy I'm dating is mentoring a girl and I don't feel comfortable with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I have been talking to (and now dating) this guy since school started, and things are definitely moving forward. We hang out regularly but still engage in our own friends and interests. He shares a lot with me but there's one thing that has been ...

My guy friend has put me in the friend zone, I need a slap back to reality!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - I am incredibly, incredibly in love with a boy who has been my close friend for about 4 years now. He is a terrible person, he only thinks i like him but continues to spend the night (sadly he only cuddles me) and other stuff any normal person would ...

My friends are all busy and have no time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - hey there!! i live in an hostel away frm home... in college... i hav a lot of friends and they are very nice... bt the prblm is that they are all committed and so they tend to ignore me. im single btw. im not saying that i too want a bf but when all ...

Will my friend feel like I am pressuring him if I tell him my feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

19 November 2013 (?) - I have a guy friend who I hang out with. He has been so busy with work lately and the last time I saw him was in the beginning of October. We keep in touch by texting. He revealed to me that he is attracted to me and he kissed me the last time I ...

Do other people have frenenemies? Or just friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - I have friends but I am quite sure that they are mostly frenemies. Things have happened and they have behaved in certain ways and done things that have proven they are not a true friend. Does anybody else feel this way? Is this normal?...

Do men keep stuff from their ex girlfriends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Hi. Firstly I'm typing this on my phone so sorry for any mistakes. I'll try and make this short. I've known this guy for six years as friends. We just recently startde dating and so far its been amazing. He's sweet, nice, focused on school a...

Uncertain why I'm want to date but I don't feel attracted to any girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - Hi Cupid I am in a dilemma and I'm not sure how to explain. I'm 21 year old straight male studying medicine at local university. It seems like I want to date now but I'm not sure what's stopping me doing so. I tried thinking of reasons ye...

Friends think my platonic guy is my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - I have a male platonic friend, he's just like a brother in many ways and we've been like this for a long time. Some of my friends maintain that a male-female platonic friendship isn't even possible and that he actually fancies me. They will point ...

I really like her, but I messed up. I just want to say sorry, but is it too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - So I sort of messed up with this girl. See, I'm a firefighter who volunteers. And there's this female EMT, I've known her for 3 years outside of squad. A bit of back story, we dated for almost a month but on both our ends, it wasn't working ...

Can I have some tips please on how to talk to women and how I can better relate to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - i struggle with women!!!!!!!! i `am the shy type of guy i`m 24 years old and i never have much confidence when it comes to women i never know what to say or do when i`m with women. There are a few who like me, i think, but i don't know what to d...

Guy I messed around with won't leave me alone and friends won't respect my privacy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I have been friends with "Lisa" since preschool and "Angela" since seventh grade. I was the "good" one of the group, mostly because I had REALLY strict parents (as in, we were only allowed to watch Christian shows/listen to Christian music. We ...

I kind of resent lending my friend money and having to pay the interest

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - One of my best friends has asked me to put plane tickets for her children to fly out to see her twice now-both times I have said yes, even though I don't really like it. The first time, the amount wasn't that high and I had the extra funds to p...

How do I get through tomorrow knowing that I've lost her forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 November 2013 (M) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'm rather depressed at the moment. Tomorrow, I'll be watching the love of my life marry my best friend. When we were 15, my best friend and I met a girl who immediately friend-zoned both of us. I told him once that I liked her ...

Am I being clingy and controlling? Do I care too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - hi quick question, my boyfriend and i have been together now for 2 years. Whenever time he goes out, whether to his dad's house or out with friends he does not like to tell me and we live together. I find it disrespectful and rude. I compla...

Might this classmate be interested in me? Why flirt with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - So, there's a guy who I never really talk to, but every day in one of my classes, where his seat is right beside mine. He will randomly reach over and try to grab my hand or arm or just brush his hand against my shoulder or something random like tha...

Should I be more laid back no matter how immature his friends are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is the sweetest guy and puts me first in his life in so many ways. I know he is the one for me. The only problem is We are 29 years old. Most of my friends have moved on in significant ways--married, ...