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Archived questions from: July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

He deleted his Facebook because of me!?!?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - hey thanks so much for this im really struggling with something... alright, I met this guy on facebook a few months back commenting on my friends status and we added eachother and we hit it off as good friends you know? He is a famous pro wre...

I know that I can never have her but how the heck do I get over her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - There's this girl and we've been frends for like 6 years but lately I've realized how totally in love with her I am! Theres only one problem, she's straight. We've kissed on dares and every time we kiss everythinng feels perfect and I never want it ...

Should I send her an apology?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) - hey I am kinda of a loner and I have been known to creep girls I knew out last year because I would send them messages on myspace-or at least most of them. I went on facebook and added this girl that I used to know in one of my classes. I said hi ...

Lonely and longing for friends but I run away when they try to get close!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

31 July 2009 (?) - I don't have any friends, and I tend to get quite lonely. However, I find it really difficult to meet people, and nobody seems to want to get to know me, even when I try to be friendly to them. I find it easier to connect with people on the in...

I told my friend how I felt and now he has ended the friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - i had a male friend of six years and fell in love with him and i told him this, he has now ended the friendship. What should i do?...

I'm afraid to confess my feelings in case I lose him as a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Well i posted my situation before. Well for the one's who dont know my situation, its the following: I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 years but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he ...

We were so close and helping each other with our problems, but then our feelings for each other got in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - ok so long story. and yes i have problems.. feels like i cant do anything right lately.. i had a close friend who just got out of a 2 year relationship and then i just got out of my 2 month relationship.. and before that my 1 eyar relationship.. and ...

What can I do to make us grow closer, and maybe even start a relationship together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - I was 9 years old, and I went camping with my parents. We went to a lake we had never been to before, and by the time we got there and got set up it was almost midnight. There was a camper beside us, and a guy came out and introduced himself, his ...

One friend thinks we'd make a cute couple, the other one thinks I was stupid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Okay, i met this boy, and i really really like him but he's sixteen and i'm thirteen. We're really close though and he tells me everything because we can trust eachother with our lives. So earlier this week we met up town to just talk and stuff, and ...

Question: do women tell their friends everything about their sex lives?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Exactly how much do women talk about their sex lives with their girlfriends? I know that everyone has a different personality and of course that would dictate what they would tell their friends about their privage moments with their significant ...

I fell in love with my bestfriends girl, now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Me and this girl have been friends for a while and her boyfriend and I have been friends for even longer. I am talking many years and I would consider him my best friend. Anyway one day she starts to touch my arm so I start to do it back. This es...

Ladies: Could she possibly want more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I got some great answers from some guys on this but was hoping for a female point of view :) Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked th...

Do you agree with what I think could be going on?

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30 July 2009 (F) - Hmmm im abit confused...right im friends with a lad hes a lovely guy and everything me and quite afw of my/our friends thought he liked me because of how he acted, and boy he showed it! I was stupid at the time(this was a year n a half ago) kinda ...

He's not into me... right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - So, to make a long story short. I met this guy about 3 1/2 years ago. We were both in relationships and did nothing but email almost every day for about 10 months. We definitely had a serious attraction and got to know each other well through these ...

Does she like me or something?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - I go to the gym 3 days a week, I see 2 girls who go on the same days. I've noticed one who is attractive and our eyes have met a few times over the weeks, I check her out not quite a bit and sometimes catch her looking at me but looks away as soon ...

How do you pash?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm 14 and I haven't pashed a guy. Well, I've had this one guy who lives cross the road from me try to pash me several times but for some reason I back away, I wanna pash him, but I'm scared for some reason. What do I do ? ...

How do I know if I need closure for this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

30 July 2009 (M) - Okay, I'm a fifteen years old high school student. For about two or three years now, I've really, really, liked this pretty church-girl, and I've been so head over heels for her since. I like her so much, but it just felt so weird since I didn't ...

He has so many beautiful female friends, how can I tell if he's really interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5589 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - This doesn't make much sense, but I'm seeing a guy who has a lot of female friends. His best friend is a stunningly beautiful single woman and other attractive women are always so friendly and interested in him. I'm not normally jealous, this is the ...

Why isn't he responding to my emails?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

30 July 2009 (F) - I had a high school reunion a few years ago and while there one of my former guy classmates (who always flirted with me in school) chatted it up with me and gave me a friendly goodbye. I started emailing him to talk and a few months into it I asked ...

I want to go out with my friends but my girlfriend wants to see me. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi there, I've started seeing a girl for the past month or so. But I'm worried she's becoming a little too attached to me. She constantly wants to see me, and while I'm thrilled to bring her all the happiness I can, it can be hard work, because 1)...

How I do politely ignore him?

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29 July 2009 (F) - Hi. It's a bit long winded but please bear with me! Okay, here goes. There's this guy I've known for a while [let's call him Paul] through school, but not exactly as friends, and he'd occasionally talk to me. At the time I didn't think much of ...

How should I ask her out? What should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - ive been talking to this girl on msn thats in my classes and we are friends but not too much friends that i cant ask her out. how shall i ask her out. for example what should my facial expression be and what words\phrases shall i use and how shall i ...

If I impress her will she want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi, please help im getting sad :) I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked the girl i worked with but would never dream of cheating. the girl from work dated a guy from work too...

Is he just not into me or shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for a couple of months and we are constantly flirting with each other. We don't really see each other that often because he has a job in a town 2 hours away from where we both live and I don't know when he comes up. I can tell ...

Is she intrested in me or am I being stupid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Im a 17 year old boy in college, and I just wondered if anyone could tell me if this girl is interested in me. She does make a lot of glances at me, sometimes she'll do it every second or so for a while. I've seen her do it out of the corner of my ...

Does he like me, or just the idea of someone liking him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Theres this guy who works with my dad that i think is really cute and funny and i think he knows i like him but he never seems interested. Hes normally very shy but recently hes been talking to me on the internet and hes asked for my number and he ...

How should I go about showing guys that I'm single and looking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - In the past I've had terrible luck with dating . I know I'm only 18, and it takes time.. Blah blah blah. But I've only had 4 boyfriends in my life. All for less then a month. Even counting silly relationships in middle school. Its not that I'm ugly ...

He acts oddly, does he like me or Not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Hi, Basically i was friends with a guy in my class from college, i really really liked him ad from what he did and the way he acted i think he felt the same. Also i was told by people that he liked me. Because things had got weird, he;d denyed ...

He doesn't believe I would NEVER cheat on him. How can I prove this to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - I've been a relationship for 5 years now. We've been through a lot together. I stay at his house almost every day even though I have my own place. A few days ago I received a call from a male friend I did not answer. My boyfriend's friend made a ...

Its my 21st and I should be able to celebrate the way I want, but my friends have other ideas!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - Ive been best friends with these 3 girls for over 10 years. This is year is my 21st and we agreed that we would go away to Brighton one weekend to celebrate it. As I have many different groups of friends, I have also organised a weekend away with ...

I initiated things but now I want to back out! How do I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - Hi, there's this girl that I've known for about a year now. I've had feelings for her but she didn't know so we were just friends. Recently, I asked her out on a date and she said 'yes' and I thought everything was gonna be perfect. But I realised ...

My flirting has given a few guys the wrong impression, what do to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

29 July 2009 (F) - For various reasons, right now I'm very happy being single and dating here and there. But it turns out that me having a boyfriend is the only thing stopping a lot of guys I know from letting their imaginations run wild. As a few of my girlfriends ...

Maybe we focused too heavily on the relationship and not our friendship? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

29 July 2009 (M) - There's a friend of mine. We are so close it's unreal, and she told me she liked me. I fell in love with her, and we went out for a month. But then- Recently, she said she just was unhappy, she preferred it when we were friends, and she broke up...

My ex's best friend is hitting on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - So latest on my ex. I guess he is over me so im over him his friend who dated my friend (lets call her D).he had apologized for saying stuff about how my ex wants nothing to do with me. And said hes being an ass and than asked what i was doing for ...

Help!!! How can I prove to people I'm not immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Hello :) Okay so long story short virtually everyone I know thinks I am immature. I admit, I can be a little silly at times. I laugh at things others don't find funny, for example parts of kung fu panda which I was practically weeing myself over whi...

She wants to have sex with no strings but I'm not sure I can do that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - A girl i met and have been talking to as friends wants to be my first time having sex but doesnt want a relationship and just wants to be friends with benefits at least for the time being. She has said she would possibly date me in the future but i ...

Why all the tension???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I dont quite get this. Ok theres a guy in my class and when we're alone we talk fine, we're along some morning if we;re there before the others. However when other people come in the room he goes quiet n doesnt talk to me like he used to. He will ...

Confused on what to do... does this sound more like 'just friends' to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm 15 years old,i look very mature for my age. Not to sound concieted or anything im very attractive, and have a great body. i like this guy thats 18 years old he told me i was beautiful, and would try to dating if i was older. Even though i feel ...

Is the guy I met on holiday playing games with me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - met a guy on holiday, we got on brill. he did show signs of being insecure and a bit jealous. and i think he liked me to chase after him. since i got home i txt him the other week and he did not reply to me although my text did not require a ...

Should I stay in his life in the hope that he'll see me as his fiance again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My fiance and I broke up a few months ago after dating for a year. We broke up bc of mounting tensions that all started with our engagement. Things got out of hand and next thing I know he's breaking up with me. It's been 3 months yet we ta...

Boyfriend's friend said he's cheating on me, but he insists his friend's lying. I don't know if I can trust him now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3years now. But it has been a long distance..but since this year started he has been distancing me. And we i ask him he claims he had problem.this went on until this month. He started trying to get intouch with me ...

How can I inprove my social skills?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - how can i brush up and improve my social skills? when studyin a-levels i didnt go out as much anymore and i lost quite a lot of friends. lately i have made friends. however because i am now somewhat insecure, if they do not call then i dont cal...

I introduced him to my best friend now she's trying to break us up and steal him away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5591 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - k well i have a long distance relationship with this guy thats not to to far from me. he is 2 years older then me, im 14 and he is 16, and i realy love him and he realy loves me, well atleast that whats he tells me. we talk everyday for hours on the ...

Was he into me and kinda ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - So here is a little back round. I am a teen who works as a cashier and I get a lot of people who live on farms, esp young farm boys. This guy looked to be around my age and I thought he was REALLY cute. Also the fair is this week and the local 4h ...

Am I fooling myself into believing that he loves me just as much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are facing a bit of a problem in our relationship and I would like some advice on how to handle the situation. Let's start from the begining. I am Swedish and he is English. After 2 years travelling between our countrie...

How do I tell my friend the truth without hurting her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - So my best friend *Nikki is obsessed with being gothic and *Mike. That's all she ever talks about. When we are on the phone or hanging out, every time she will say, "Life is just a waiting room for death." or something about death. Everytim...

I want to send a girl I like this poem for her birthday. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Theres this girl that i really like, but after we hit things off, things haven't been the same. But anyways i do still like her alot! and was wondering if it would be a good idea to send her this poem i wrote, her B-Day, is wed. It's not in hopes ...

Bad things always seem to happen to me. Where is my dawn after the darkness? Will I ever find love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - After all this time im almost 19 and ive still never had a real girlfriend, every attempt has been littered with problems and complications that have only led me to pain. All girls have done is given large amounts of grief and emotional pain, thus i ...

Despite seeing another girl my ex says he wants to be friends...Is he being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ex lover what does he want? A long distance ex lover who i was seeing for about a year and is older than me. We split mainly due to my nervousness around getting too close and the fact i wasnt able to see him much. So i told him best we went our...

I'm torn between two people...and my fiance said he'd commit suicide if I left! How can I tell him I'm having second thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I were planning to get married this year, but for now he's far from from me( he's working in a far place). And i met a guy on my previous job and we had a mutual understanding, I found something in this guy that I never found from ...