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Archived questions from: 1 July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Advice needed? Is he using me for sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - hiya :) I'm 15. There's this boy I've liked for a while. we'll call him connor. I've been on a date with him but that was months ago. He knows i still like him and he says he likes me too. we're quite close friends and have been for about a ...

Help!!! How can I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Couple of months back i lost my virginity to this boy I'd gotten to know pretty well - who had been chasing me for a while. Personality wise we were a great match and always got on amazingly, thing is he was always open about the fact he wasnt ...

How bad is it to get together with your friend's ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - How bad is it to get together with your friend's ex? me and my friends girlfriend have been madly in love for a long time now and after months of debating and torturing ourselves for feeling the way we do we have finally decided we have to be to...

Should I tell him I want something serious or is he just using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - There is a guy who I've known for a while and he has a girlfriend that he's been dating for six months but he flirts with me all the time and talks about wanting to have sex with me. Should I tell him I want something serious or is he just using me?...

How can I get this girl to talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - How Can I Get This Girl To Talk To Me..... Okay so, There this girl, we were good mates, and she liked me and i guess i liked her, but i never asked her out, i guess i missed my chance. Anyway Now, i feel like im falling in love with her, eve...

Horrible age diffrence! Help me get rid of my crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I have now liked this guy for 3 months. But there is just one little problem with it. He happens to be 23 when im only 14. I truly hate liking him cause i cant have him. And i wouldnt do that to anyone i liked cause its illigal and i dnt want h...

Do I tell him my feelings or get over him? He has a girlfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm sixteen years old. It's important you know that I am a very shy, reserved person before I share with you my predicament. Ok, so about a year and a bit ago, I met this guy, we'll call him Ed. He was insterested in my friend...

She loves me but is not sexually attracted to me - what does she mean by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for 2 years in college but towards the end of our relationship we started fighting a lot and kinda fell out of love. We broke up in feb 2009 and continued to remain friends. In May we started hanging out a lot and started acting ...

Is he just being friendly or is there more in it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - hi hope someone can give their opinion. A few months ago a guy joined the place i work, and we spoke a few times. over the last month things have changed slightly and a few of my friends have commented on how this guy acts around me and have said ...

Lonely... need girlfriend for company...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm bored this summer. I don't have a girlfriend and I don't know where to look for one. Sometimes I see some sitting alone in the park but is it normal if I went up to one? Certainly not. Where do I go to find someone nice?...

I need tips on giving oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - There is this girl that I've been fooling around with for a few weeks now... it will most likely turn into a relationship soon because I have strong feelings about this girl and I'm assuming she does as well because we spend a lot of time with each ...

I feel guilty I lied to him but I'm probably never going to see him again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I have a bit of a problem... last year me and my friend were 15 and we went on holiday to spain, in the resort the drinking age was 16. We met some lads who said they would take us out drinking. After they asked our age my friend said 16, so we just ...

How can I get my ex's friends to stop bringing his name up every time I meet them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex about a year ago. He ended it and asked for no contact which was good as it helped me move on. Trouble is whenever I run into one of his friends, they always bring him up, as if they have been coached. I am getting tired of it ...

How do I tell a guy that's in love with me that I know all about his perverted doings behind my back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - OK, this is gonna be long. So there's this guy I used to be friends with, but then our friendship just sort of wore off when he became a pervert. He shared his very creepy opinions about my friends with other people but never his opinions of me. ...

Should he have to pay these bills?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved in with some friends on a 12 month contract not long before we met. After 4 months of living with them, (though he didnt really as this period was over summer break from uni so he was at home) he moved in with me but still paid ...

I have a mad crush on my friends mom and she knows. Help, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I have a mad crush on my friends mom. She knows too because I stayed over at their house once. In the morning she noticed I was aroused by her in a robe but told me to "take care of it" at home. Then two weeks later I was with my friend playing ...

She says I'm her friend but friends do not do the things we do together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I seriously need some guidance or advice. Basically my ex girlfriend and i dated for almost 3 years, we lived together. We broke up around November last year, and she was involved with another woman for 6 months, things did not work out. For about ...

Was it just a dream?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - hi all, this might sound a bit silly but i just wanna know what other people make of this. last night i dreamt of my b/fs best friend. i was fooling around with him(in the dream) and it felt so good and so real. we get along great and he's just so ...

Best friend told me she had a dream about having sex with my brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - Hey guys, i have a problem. my best friend and i have been friends for about a year... but this quickly grew to being best friends. Ive always had feelings for her, but she never had feelings for me... so i thought. we talked about it a coupl...

Why is he telling people that I'm an atheist?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - I am not a religious person but I do have a high focus on my spiritual health. This guy, I really like him and he likes me too, we get along great, the only thing recently we somehow got to talking about God he's a Christian, I'm not. I totally ...

Being my best friend's other guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (M) - I've been friends with a woman (lets call her Butterfly) for 7 years now (all of our adult lives), she's actually one of my best friends. Butterfly is recently out of a harmful relationship and I am recently out of the military, so for the last ...

Can a boy just seriously stop liking you like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

1 July 2009 (F) - okay so there is this boy ive been hooking up with. the whole day we were have a really good convo and he was telling me how much he wanted me and cares about me and that this relationship isnt committed...its not just physical to him and that he ...