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Archived questions from: 13 July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

His behavior is driving me loopy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - my guy friend rugby tackles me picks me up forcefully bear hugs me and apparently i owe him like a billion hugs. i don't get it hes the only friend that does this. past times we have pride ourselves on teasing eachother and our dry with but lat...

Married an older guy, but after 3 years I now regret it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - im married to my hubby for now 3 years.i was 20 when i married him, arranged marriage but with my consent.he is 15 years older than me and actualy looks that old too, at times people avtually thought he was my father.at that time i was so stupid to ...

Friend suffering from really bad depression..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Im really worried about my friend. Has anyone had a friend who suffers from really bad depression. He is 17 and I have only known him pesonally for about a year, but he has litterally been depressed every single minuite of everyday. His very quiet, ...

Don't know what to do about these feelings for my ex boyfriends friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - The father of my child passed away two years ago when I was six months pregnant. He was 19 and in a drunk-driving accident (the guy who hit him was drunk) and I was 17 and a senior in high school. We, admittedly, had only known each other for three ...

How can I chase her without putting on pressure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - My ex-fiance and I split up about 2 months ago. About two weeks ago she approached me via email and we have been talking daily since then, and seen each other almost every day since, but only for a few minutes, just to see each other and talk to ...

How do I approach her about her unwanted sexual advances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I've got a problem and I don't really know how to handle it. Last week, a female co-worker came on to me. We've been good friends since I started working there three years ago and I had no idea that she was attracted to me. She came round to my ...

Is he serious or just joking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half has, in the past, said multiple times that my friends are wh*res, n*ggers, and handfuls of other derogatory names because of some threat that they pose to him. I am not friends with bad people, I am not friends...

Did he disrespect me or was it just because he was drunk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - dear cupid i have a friend and we are both married,he is aso my workmate.he is good ,friendly but a little bit fond of girls.one night my husband was not around and i attended a party,wi and my friend got drunk but just moderate.he gave me a ride ...

I love him but it's not mutual, how can I reconnect with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I really love this guy, but the feelings are not mutual. I haven't seen in a long time, but my feelings for him are growing stronger, and I believe he is worth it. How do I initiate conversation? How do I know that he wants to be my friend?...

Is he trying to put space between us to stop any feelings developing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Very confused. In a very close friendship with a married man whose marriage has collapsed, or so he tells me. About two weeks ago we met up and discussed feelings for one another. however we decided (mainly his decision) to just try and remain...

I think I love my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - Ok to cut to the point... i think im in love with my best friend and dont know what to do about it... ok short(ish) version: it didnt start like that but her mom and dad absolutly adore me and want me to date their daughter and my parents want the ...

Why is she ruining our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I have had this best friend since freshman year and we are now seniors...we are both lesbians and well, we have a weird friendship. i started out obsessed with her. then i got over it and we were best friends. i liked her on and off for years, t...

My best friend has a drinking friend, and is leaving me out!

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13 July 2009 (?) - is it true that old saying that "misery loves company" are drinking buddies really "bonded" in real f.ship? my best friend drinks a fair bit to cope with her medical and personal issues, she knows she does this. She has in the past 9 wks, beco...

My overly provocative friend....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - Views wanted on this please. I have a very good friend who has had a partner for the last 6 months and I have been with my partner for 4 years. However, we invited them round for supper last week and all night, my friend kept bending over and ...

My best friend and boyfriend hate each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - A couple months ago my boyfriend and my best friend got into a fight over facebook. I had a picture and my best friend, (he is a guy btw) commented on it, saying "You are so beautiful, I love you!) My boyfriend responded to this very negatively,...

If I keep going out with him without feeling a connection, am I leading him on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - I met this man and he is a nice person and I open really slowly so I usually need to spend lots of time with someone before I'm really into that person. He's a nice man, polite and seems to be very into me( calls me often, texts me, keeps asking me ...

I know what is right, but I'm still confused on what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - So I am newly engaged to an MP in the army and he is stationed at Guantanamo Bay, I live near an air force base so naturally i have alot of air force friends well one of my friends which is a guy has been hitting on me knowing i am engaged and sends ...

I want to see him, but afraid of getting in trouble with my parents, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (F) - hey well im kind of involved with this guy.. were friends with benefits i guess and welove eachother. the thing is i dont get to see him alot. i want to sneak out to his house tonight( its in walking distance) just to see him. seriously im so sad ...

We talk every night, how do I take this to another level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

13 July 2009 (M) - i met this girl at school and we talk every night on msn but i want to get closer to her and begin a relationship with her, what should i do?...