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writes:I go to the gym 3 days a week, I see 2 girls who go on the same days. I've noticed one who is attractive and our eyes have met a few times over the weeks, I check her out not quite a bit and sometimes catch her looking at me but looks away as soon as I look at her. Also I notice she will make an effort to lean and look in my direction?I've seen her in other places too and she will do the same, just look up and away?What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): (i asked the question)
i dont see her looking at any other men in the gym, one time i walked in to meet my freind and he was not there yet (but she was) and she saw me, anyway i walked back out and waited outside for my mate.
when her and her freind came walking out she was talking and then saw me and said 'oops' and put her hand over her mouth.
Now i'm not a complete idiot but sometimes people get things wrong, i dont want to. She mite have been saying 'oh yeah and have you SEEN his receeding hairline hehehehe'
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reader, DLover  +, writes (30 July 2009):
Seems like positive signs to me, go ahead and ask for a drink !
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reader, SweetStu +, writes (30 July 2009):
 Sounds like the classic signs to me, but then not everyone is the same. What's she like with other men in the gym?
From what you've said, if I were to place a bet I'd definitely go for saying she likes you. Particularly as she appears to make a point of leaning toward you (whatever you both may be doing when she does this).
Just ask her out for a drink or find an excuse to talk to her.
Good luck buddy.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (30 July 2009):
 Maybe or you just could be eye candy for her....talk to her then your find out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): She might be interested in you but just really shy!
If you like her, why not try talking to her? You could just strike up a conversation. You already have something in common to talk about, the gym you both go to. Next time you catch her looking at you, you could go over and just say hi, and ask how she is or something. I don't think that would be weird or anything, seeing as she keeps looking at you. Good luck! x
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reader, kez411 +, writes (30 July 2009):
 its quite obvious that she likes you.... but she dosnt know if you feel the saem and the reason she quickly looks away from you is because she is scared she is coming across as being desperate...
so all you can do is decide i you like her too and if you do tell her and if you dont make it obvious to her without hurting her feelings.
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