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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Smitten... after only one week! Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my ...

I like him but he smells...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (?) - i kind of like this guy and i know for a fact that he likes me as he was over at my house over the weekend. he was talking to me and before i left to go to someone else's house, he wanted to know if i wanted his number so we could hang out sometime ...

I love my boyfriend very much but I keep dreaming about his friend. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Is it normal to have other guys in my dreams? I've been going out with my current boyfriend for a few months and I really care about him. But he lives with his best friend, so the three of us hang out a lot. Last night I had a dream that his friend ...

Should I have sex with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and my best friend (he's a boy) tells me everything... the other day he said to me he thinks he is ready for sex... i said i think i am too... later on he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and he wants it to be with some he trusts ...

Should I wait for him to text me or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do with myself. I just wait for him to text me because we haven't talked since thursday night. He knows that I like him and he showed all the signs that he was into me too. We've been on and off talking for about 2 years now. ...

Should I take Antidepressants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I believe myself to be a strong person and can deal with alot but i think it is this very mentality that has proved to be my downfall! The last few years i have coped with a lot from my grandmother's death to a miscarrige i told nobody about and...

Help me unravel her intentions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I got out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago and have been doing fine being single, recently I came across a really cute girl and we hung out together twice, both times with a bunch of my friends. We have a fair bit in common and we...

Would you consider a woman who had casual sex with 5 guys in 6 months extreme behaviour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Would you consider a woman who had casual sex with 5 guys (all college friends) in 6 months extreme behavior or par for the course for a gal getting over a stale relationship? Before this stage she had only been with one guy for two years.(19-22 yrs ...

Am I pregnant... or just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Heyaa (: im 13 yearss old (14 in august). I was at a kind of party thing which was my best mates.. there was a lot of alcohol and a lot of people got pissed. When it came to night time, the people that stayed the night slept in tents (this includes...

Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and ...

I'm quiet and hurt, I'm losing my best friend to another co-worker!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - sorry this is long, need advice Ive been a quieter person all my life and have always only had a very small group of friends, none of who I have ever thought of as a best friend, they are just friend who i see occasioanlly, not friends who i co...

My bf says it's wrong for me to remain nice to people I dislike. Is he right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - i'm normally a really nice person, and people know me for this. even if its someone i genuinely dislike for something she did to me in the past etc i am not mean to her, and i remain polite if she strikes a conversation with me. sometimes i tend to ...

He says we're friends, but he doesn't want to talk to me very much! What's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I'm hoping some of you out there can help me because im really not sure not to do! We you see i've been friends with this guy for 2 years now, we were at college together. The thing is we've always seemed to have som sort of communication problem. ...

Is friends with benefits more emotional than a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Friends with benefits people say its less emotional but surely its more? because if you've been friends with them for some time then you would care for them a lot, probably more than a new boyfriend so if you lose them then not only do you los...

How do I do what's right by my friend? He's just had a baby and wants to leave his fiancee for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - well im 17 , and my friend who is 22 has been in a relationship for around 4 years , his fiancee has just had a baby but he didnt seem to happy , he was scared of being a daddy eventhough he loves his daughter to bits , he asked me advice on being ...

I'm worried my best friend will hate me for liking his little sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Hey, when first started High School I met this guy in my year and we hit it off and became best friends straight away and still are now. I'm over at his house so often, I basically live there (I don't really get on with my family), his parents see ...

How can I get her to see sense, I have seen her boyfriend cheating on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi... My bestfriend is being cheated on.Shes going out with a guy whos 19 shes 16. When he goes out to clubs she doesnt go with him because she wont get into them. Anyway after a night out people constantly come back to her and me and tell us he w...

We were all gossiping but they have turned me into the scapegoat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hello, I really need your help on this issue because I am getting very depressed with this matter. I’ll try to be as short as possible as I respect that it’s no fun for you to read long stories. We are three women working in the same office...

Was he ok with me? Or just being funny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi i posted something on here a while ago with regards to a guy i've known since primary school all through high school, and now i still hang out with him and the random moments we have flirting and always having heart to hearts and at a BBQ we ...

How did you figure out that you were gay or bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I'm really confused right now. I have considered myself straight for my entire life, up until I realized feelings for my friend back in March. She was the only girl I had ever really had feelings for. We recently broke up, but now I can't figure out ...

How do I let him know I am interested in him more than a little?

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20 July 2009 (F) - I went out with a friend to dinner and a local play (a romantic comedy) his friend was in. It wasn't billed as a date per se. We've only really hung out twice before and just as friends. But we ended up being together about six hours in all; it was ...