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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and I were planning to get married this year, but for now he's far from from me( he's working in a far place). And i met a guy on my previous job and we had a mutual understanding, I found something in this guy that I never found from my boyfriend, he's caring and sweet, my boyfriend is kind and my family knows him already but I still feel something's lacking, I told to my boyfriend that i need some time to think if i'm really ready to get married with him but he didn't give me a chance to think for myself and he told me that he will commit suicide if i'm going to leave him so i'm confused and i don't know how will i tell him what i really feel. I can't express myself. I'm really confused in my situation, how will i tell him that i need to think first if i'm really to get married and i want to have a "cool off" so that i can think for myself, pls give me an advice, thanks a lot.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (28 July 2009):
 ur bf is being selfish and trying to in some way trick u into the marriage.his obviously in some way depressed if hes getting suicidal thoughts but then he could b just usin that excuse to keep u dont let that affect your state of mind just tell your bf that marriage is a big step and u need time to cool off and properly think about it if he cant accept that and cant understand that then i dont think he is the right person for u
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