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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I can't let her go or move forward

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - So the happiest day in my life came when the woman I have been in love with for 5 years decided she wanted to start a relationship with me as soon as I moved to the area. One month later, a week before I moved, she informed me that she had decided ...

My best friend's bf wants to date me! Does he mean it or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - okay, so my bestfriend is going out with one of my close guy friends that i've known for about 3 years. I never thought I had feelings for him, but these past days we've been talking on the phone alot about everything, mostly our relationships and ...

He doesn't really want me around him...so should I just lose contact or email him in a couple months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - there is this guy i have known for almost a year. we met at a place we both used to work (but don't anymore). anyway, we were mostly just friends although i think he liked me a bit and i started to like him too..we are both very free-spirited and ...

My habit really embarrasses me and I need help to stop doing it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Ummm, ok, first, to get things straight, this is habit ALONE. Right, it's quite embarassing, because at school, guys tease me and say stuff about *it* (if you know what I mean...) I have a bad habit of shaking my legs up and down and up and down, ...

We've moved and its small town and I'm feeling very discouraged

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I have no friends, no relatives, no history what so ever in this new town that I've moved in with my parents. Now I just feel so sick and alone. I can't talk about anything personal to anyone. I've lost contact with all my old friends. I feel like ...

Did I read him wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - There's this guy at my work, he is 25 (5 years older than me) and i think he might like me. I can sense something in his body language. He can't help but smile when he looks at me. and he always notices me and says hello when i walk in. but maybe he ...

I like her until she likes me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - I can totally be the one pursuing the girl, but when I find out she likes me back and she gets all attached to me, I don't like her anymore. Is that normal? or is that me finding things wrong with her because I'm not completely self assured? or is ...

How can we avoid all this anger towards each other? What can I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I do not know what to do and need advice. Been a very good friend with a guy for many years and we got on very well.we would talk and he always showed off and even showed me how too play music for the music events he did.used to drive him home.he ...

I helped my friend get over her ex, but now I like him and I feel like a hypocrite!

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14 July 2009 (F) - OK, So there's this guy I know and I liked him loads at the beginning of the year until I found out he'd been with one of my best friends. I love my friend to bits but they're not seeing each other anymore and she now has a boyfriend, someone she's ...

Whenever I try to tell her how I feel she changes the subject!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (M) - So, there's this girl I've been friends with for about six or seven years now and she's starting to drive me a little bit crazy. When we first met, I didn't see her in a romantic way at all, but I always thought she was really nice and ...

Rumors are swirling around at work about us and we aren't together!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - hi hope someone can maybe shed some light on what could be going on here. A few months ago a new guy joined my work and we seemed to get on ok. Over the last 2 - 3 months or so he has been talking to me more and we seemed to have a connection. my ...

What is going on between us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I met this guy ONE WEEK ago, but he has a gf. He's like no one I've met. We can just sit and talk for literally hours, the past week we've texted when we woke up and before we've gone to bed. We hung out almost every day last week, and the 2 days we ...

He texts me and invites me out, is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - So I am just trying to figure out if this guy that I kind of like, is interested in me. I haven't known him for too long really. But some days he will text me and say "Hey What's up?" And he'll always ask me how my day has been. He's invited me...

We really click, but he doesn't 'do' relationships

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - I am really good friends with a guy I used to work with. We speak loads during the week and get along really well when we are together. Previously we have kissed and most recently we had sex! Which has been on the cards after months of flirti...

I'm really jealous about my best mate's girlfriend..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

14 July 2009 (F) - Hi guys, My best friend has just recently fallen head over heels for this girl who we met at a party a while ago. I was really apprehensive about her, as she was just generally rude (mainly to me, not to him obviously!) when we met her, though I...