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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is it too soon to tell her how much I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I was on here a few days ago about a girl that wouldnt speak to me, anyway we talked it out and she's started speaking to me again, However is it too soon to tell her how much I like her? What's people opinions?...

I'm so upset and hurt...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch ...

What can I do about this girl who doesn't want friendship anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I have a problem which is starting to cause a good bit of depression in me. You see I had a friend who I talked to a lot, I considered her one of my best friends. We seemed to have fun with each other and talked a lot (An awful lot). However ...

Is it possible to stay friends when we love each other? We're both married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - hi if you are friends with a married man, you spend time alone together, and your friendship has quite obviously taken a turn towards being romantic; you've both admitted to each other that you want more and that you've fallen in love; he's told ...

Should I just tell her I don't want to be friends because of how shes changed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Me and my friend have been really good friends for about 3 years now, you could say we are best friends. We've always had so much fun and have always talked about everything and it's been great. Lately however she has changed. She has become s...

Why can I not stop thinking about this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Why can I not stop thinking of this guy? Ok but lets call him Erik. So Erik is a really cute and nice guy. But has his moments where he is really mean. He is one of my close friends and I can talk to him whenever. But lately he has been a jerk. Like ...

My best guy friend likes me, but I'm scared to risk our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I'm 16; My best guy friend Ben who i've known for just over 2 years, told me the other day that he really likes me, and thinks that we could have something special. But im so worried to go any further with him incase it ruins our friendship, and ...

How can we make up and be friends again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - I sent a text to my friend one afternoon to find out if she fancied meeting up that evening if we were both free. She was at work and so I didn't expect a reply, if any til she finished. At the same time, I was at my Mum's boyfriend's place, round ...

What can I do to sort out our friendship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - hello :)Okay, so recently a friend of mine said that he really liked me, I, unfortunately, didn't feel the same way back as I like another guy. He said he was okay with this, although pretty upset. I asked him if we could still stay such good ...

My girlfriend is hanging out with a friend who is a bad influence! How can I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Well Ive been together with this girl for almost a year and I love her a lot. I always am there for her I always make her nice dinners, and take care of her when she's sick and stuff. She always tells me she loves me and would always listen to me. I ...

She says we are too close to be lovers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - there is this girl i have known for 3years, we have been good friends, we share everything, she know a lot about me and i know a lot about her too. she always tell me that i am her best friend. i love her but i never told her until recently, i want ...

I don't want to make things awkward but I like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Ok, ready for a novel? Well about 2 1/2 years ago a I met a girl. We became really close throughout time spent talking, basically telling each other anything with complete trust. We became best friends but i kept having feelings for her ...

I think I still like him but not sure if he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - i'm confused and i really need help please someone help me out.this guy used to like me and he asked me out and i said yes but after a few weeks i told him that were are more like friends cuz we never kissed or went out so i told him that and he ...

I'm trying to be friends with him first but I really fancy him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - There's this boy in my form I really fancy. Aparently, he used to have a massive crush on me too. Unfortunately, I don't know if he still feels the same way. I'd ask him out if I had the confidence. He's not quite good-looking or anything, but he's ...

I'm 16, she's just 14 and I'm falling hard!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hey i just turned 16. i went to a party a few nights ago and met a very nice girl. very mature acting just being part of the crowd. little did i know she is only 13 and turning 14. she suprised everyone at the bonfire with her age, i mean nobody ...

Friend is super annoying and I don't want to be her friend anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - Okay, so my friend is SO annoying! She was so nice last year, and now she acts like shes trying to fit in. -she acts like she knows everybody and that shes everybodys friend. and lots of the people she talks to dont even like/talk about her. -she...

Isn't there a rule about friends not dating each other's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

4 July 2009 (F) - so i had this boyfriend a two years ago. we dated for a year, before i knew he had cheated on me with his co worker, i found out n broke up with him.. at the time his dad had passt away n mom was not very well, i gave my condoleses n told him he ...

I don't want to lose my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hi, this is appu. i m best friend of a girl, since 3 years. she had a bf since 8 years.frm the very last year, she is not giving time to me, earlier we talk on net and on phone regularly , but now since 6 months she looks to change now she talks ...

I'm 21 and asked her out then found out she's 26!!! Will this be a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - I met this girl thats really nice and funny, and after a couple times of talking i asked her to get dinner and she said yes, so we set up a date for tommorow and all seems well but i found out today that she is 26 years old, I am only 21, is this a ...

Age gap... can it REALLY work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

4 July 2009 (M) - Hello, I met a girl.... I'm not yet emotionally overcommitted but i seek your wisdom.. before i begin to allow those sorts of things to build I'm separated.... and most women ive dated have been my age, almost all of them. I have had a few flings...