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Archived questions from: 8 July, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

If you were in my ex's position, would you forgive my new love interest, his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Ok for the purpose of this question I'll call the 2 guys Tom and Will. I apologise if this is a bit long but I feel I need to explain the history on this! When I was in my teens I started dating Tom and became really good friends with his best ma...

I know my ex-boyfriend likes me, and I am going to wait for him to be ready to date again, but should I countinue to kiss him and hang out with him alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I have been getting closer lately. Hanging out a lot and talking again. Yesterday before he was going to pick me up to go to the pool with him, he texted me this..."I am having mixed feelings on what to do. Like I want to date ...

How do I convince her that I didn't know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - My close friend had an affair with another one of my friends husband. I was never told about the affair. My friend who's husband cheated on her thinks I knew and had something to do with it. What can I say or do to convince her that I relaly truly ...

I'm in love with my friend and I think she likes me too, how should I go about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Im so confused, i need help. Im 15, gay, and Im in love with my best friend, have been now for about 9 months. She used to say she was bi, then straight, then she didnt know and just yesterday she said she was bi again. My friends reckon she likes ...

I've become friends with a girl I like, but she likes someone else! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - right i left another post saying that i like this girl at school but shes taken but now she is not and for the past few days i have been getting to no her more and become good mates with her but she likes another boy and i think they might go out ...

What can I tell my depressed friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - So yesterday i got a call from a friend she needed to see me at wrk. She shows up and said i did it. With a guy lets call Jake. He is lke 17 and she is 14. He has slept around a lil and so i ust put my hands over my face.Then she told me where on ...

I'm fed up with my husband's friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Hi aunts, My heart is breaking.. This is a long one.. My husband and I of two years are on the brink of another seperation. We had two before only for a couple of days each and since April he's been home and we've been ok.. The problem with us ...

Does my friend say these things to me to try and get a reaction?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - hi i've got this friend whom everytime she goes out with her friends from work she always comes back to tell me about guys she got off with. now we've never really gone out clubbing much together because i'm not one for that i did go recently...

She kissed her best male friend..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend confess to me that she kissed her best friend. She told me it was a mistake and had no feeling attached to it. Of course I got angry but im a reasonable person and i know everyone makes mistakes. I told her that I applaud her for ...

He's starting to spend all his time with his friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for a little over 3 years. Things have always been pretty good Recently, he's gotten in touch with his friends from back home. Being the cool gf I am, I let him hang out with his friends. (even though he made me give up mine)...

How can I totally forget what happened that night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - long sorry.... please help! im gay and my good freind, probably my best freind, is straight,shes knows im gay and is 100 and cool with it and isnt threatened at all. A good freind. she has had a lot of pain in her life and was treated very...

Would I tell him I"m falling for him and would I know if I'm more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - 7 months ago I've meet a guy, through a common friend. He just broke up with his girlfriend 9 months ago. After meeting him in person, we continue our communication through email,chat and text and sometimes call 'coz we are miles away, and we just ...

Do men gossip about their girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - Do men talk to their friends about women they like or are interested in? I was seeing this guy for a little bit a few months ago and we just kind of started talking again. After going out, he took me to his place since he had just moved and wanted ...

He's playing favourites but I don't think its intentional?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (M) - I have two best friends, a boy and a girl. We're all inseparable however there are a few problems. The girl, I have no problem connecting with and she has none with me. The boy, however, mostly doesnt open up to me, but he will to her. He also tells ...

How seriously should I take this comment that he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - What do you think it means if a guy's female friend starts mentioning he loves you in a half joking sort of way? This girl is nice, mature and 28 years old, so it's not like she's saying haha, you so love her! In a teenager sort of way. Or like his ...

I've become the back up friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

8 July 2009 (F) - sorry for the length but need advice plse. My best friend, who I have become close to and who I have been there for,this past year especially, is always talking about this other woman ( who is married with a child,) she has become friends (...