A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hmmm im abit confused...right im friends with a lad hes a lovely guy and everything me and quite afw of my/our friends thought he liked me because of how he acted, and boy he showed it! I was stupid at the time(this was a year n a half ago) kinda shy'd away but he knows full well how i feel about him and theres no one else i could ever wish for!Well you see we've been friends for a while now and a while ago i got an add on facebook and msn from this girl who happens to be his mate. She was at our college the year before i started, once she said she knew him i recognised her name however i never knew her personally and theres no way she ever knew me! Something similar has happened before so i had an idea but once she said "do you like anyone" and saying what a great guy this lad was i knew what was coming next!(she does not fancy him at all though she has a bf of her own) I was also talking about leaving college and how none of my class owuld really see each other again and she said "you'll still see (lads name) i bet" - like she knew! Anyway shes a lovely girl and she said we should meet up one time, i said yea sure! and then i wasnt suprised when she said and maybe (this lads name) could meet us too. Someone whos friends with all 3 of us was talking to her a while after and she admitted she was trying to get me and this lad together, an she wanted to help up and make us both happy however she wasnt sure that she should get involved. (btw things got weird between uus because theres been alot of people that dont even like me and this lad being friends!)So as you can possibly tell since this lad is the only person that she could have known me from you can kinda guess what hes told her....that he likes me etc. Dont you think that may have been what he told her? or what else do you think?(the one thats friends with all 3 of us never ever mentioned me to her and at the time when she added me hadn't spoken to her for over a year!, that mates a saint, seriously hes helped me so much!)The thing is all ths became very clear until the lad i like suddenly says to her he doesnt like me even as a friend and she was totally shocked, but yea hs still friends with me and stuff i think he just said that for the sake of it tbh! Its obvious what he told her isnt iT? do you agree and what do you think could be going off.Ive never spoken to any of them about this and dont intend to right now until i have someone elses opinion!
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