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writes:Hi, please help im getting sad :)I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked the girl i worked with but would never dream of cheating. the girl from work dated a guy from work too but he cheated on her and they split bout 4 months ago it was a bit messy and public at work. i have told the girl how i feel about her and we have always been good friends. other people in work have also said to both of us that we should go outbecause we get on so well. we txt each other all the time. she said that she didnt want to go out cause after the split with the guy from work she saw a guy but it was complicated and she is still getting over it and severing the ties. this was a few months ago that they split. she said that she doesnt want a relationship till she is over it and this is the reason and she is not protecting my feelings. we went a drive on mon night to a 24 hr supermarket to get a present for her friends boy. we are also goin to drop her car off at my fathers garage on fri and then go to lunch to celebrate her moving dept at work, but as friends. we have such good fun together and others think so too. i think that maybe she wants to see how we get on in thse situations 1st and that if i am there for her and impress her then maybe when she is ready she will want more.......please help what do u think.....thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): When she's ready to want you you will know. You have the rapport. For now just be her friend in need and don't insinuate anything.
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