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*aniix3
writes:Dear Cupid,Well i posted my situation before. Well for the one's who dont know my situation, its the following:I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 years but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he graduated from middle school (he's a grade older than me) I lost touch with him but then one day i found him on myspace and after that we started to talk. A few days passed and I was ready to tell him how I felt but I found out that he had a girlfriend so I didnt tell him and just became his good friend. Three months after getting with his girlfriend she broke up with him and he was very depressed but I was the one that was always there to cheer him up. We would talk everyday for long periods of time but then when school started (we go to different schools)we atill talked and I would always see him in church on sundays but then around November him and the girl who broke up with him (his ex) got back together and since then they've been together like on his AIM aways its said i love my wife, always and forever and stuff like that which makes me upset because i really like him like sometimes i think i fell in love with him. We still talk everyday and he flirts alot with me. Like once after church I said hi and when i logged on AIM he was like when you said hi today you semlt good and all i wanted to do is pull you to me and smell you. Okay well recently we hung out, he went with me to buy some books i needed for this upcoming school year. I was very shy and nervous around him. Well we talked and he confessed to me that the first time he went out with his girlfriend, they broked up because she cheated on him and he also told me that her friends dont like him and that they've tried to break them up and stuff and that she doesnt seem to stop them. He also told me that the day before he had a dream that he found he's girl with a guy in bed. Like I'm like wondering if he actually likes her. I also asked him if he loved her and it took him a minute to say yes. I also asked him if he missed her (she's on vacation) and he was like "ummmm......yeah". Also while we was walking we kind of bumped into each other and went for my hand to hold it but i like seperated myself from him. Then when he walked me home, when we was saying bye he gave me a kiss like right next to my lips.He gives me mix signals and I'm not sure what i should do. Should I finally confess my feelings to him and see what happenes or keep them to myself? I'm just afraid to loose him as a friend.Help!--Daniix3
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reader, Her.  +, writes (4 August 2009):
Just be honest. It's thhe best policy as they say. :)
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reader, daniix3 +, writes (31 July 2009):
daniix3 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay so this is the thing he's still with the girl who cheated on him the first time. This is the second time they going out. They've been going out for a good 9 months i think.
Okay well now I'm wondering what's the best way to confess him that i like him in a way that i won't freak him out or mess our friendship up. Help me! Can i get some ideas on how to approach him with my feelings towards him.
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reader, Her. +, writes (31 July 2009):
Tell him.
If you really feel that strongly for him then tell him. Don't just blurt it out though, ha, talk a bit first about anything then tell him.
Ask him if he feels the same, and if he doesn't feel the same ask him how he does feel. That way you'll find out whats with all the signals.
Hope i helped, and good luck!
xxxxx
p.s, tell me how you get on! :D
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reader, kayla20 +, writes (31 July 2009):
 he probably sees you as a good understanding friend and by the sounds of it he isnt completely over his ex gf maybe give him a bit more time i mean you have waited 3 yrs i sure a little more wouldnt hurt when he seems generally happy jus take him to one side dont think about it and jus tell him but first of all make sure you say i hope this wont ruin our friendship but i need to tell you something ....blah blah blah and see what happens
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