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writes:So here is a little back round. I am a teen who works as a cashier and I get a lot of people who live on farms, esp young farm boys. This guy looked to be around my age and I thought he was REALLY cute. Also the fair is this week and the local 4h group does showing. Here is what went on:So he comes to my lane with a bunch of salt blocks and I was like hi and how are you, etc. I then ask,"you going to be needing a farm sheet today?" He says no. So as curious as I am and no city folk ever buy that many salt blocks I ask, "what type of farm you got?" He says, "cattle." I say "beef or dairy?" he replays, "beef." So I ask, "Angus?" He says "Short Horn." So then I say, "Well that's cool. Are they Feedlot Cattle?" He smiles and says "Some Feedlot and some breeding." Then I ask, "So do you have any other animals or is it just the cattle?" He replays with, "Just the cattle." I then smile and say, "Well I think you should get some horses on that farm of yours!" He laughs and says, "Naw, I don't like any of them!" I then say "Well how could you not like horses......" Then I ask if he does any showing and he says yes for 4h. Then I ask if hes showing in the local fair. He said he was. he then asks "you gonna be showing them horses in the fair?" I say, "No, unfortunately you have to own one to compete. So I stick to training and lessons." I then ask if he will be checking out the rodeo at the fair. He says hes not sure because they are showing early Wednesday morning. So i mention that there is bull riding on thursday that seems REALLY fun. He agrees. Well then they go to take off and he says maybe I will be seeing you in the 4h barns this year? I say well i might just have to pop in and say hi to you and maybe watch you show. He smiles and says ok. So I go see you around and good luck! Did it seem like he liked me? Did he kind of ask me out? Did it seem like I was into him? what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (28 July 2009):
 Well, big points for being gutsy, girl!! Now, I don't think that he exactly asked you out. Seems more like you kind of asked HIM out. I think he knows that you're interested, and perhaps he's not quite as gutsy as you are. But, if you want to really seal the deal - or at least get your questions answered, I would go to that bull riding show and see if you run into him. If you do, maybe you can get to know him a little better and then maybe he'll be asking you out!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2009): It definitely seemed like you were into him. It didn't seem like he was showing the same interest though, and you sort of prompted him with all of your questioning until he finally began having a two way conversation. i.e. initiating the next sentence. By the end of it I think he was more i interested than he was in the beginning. As far as asking you out, I don't think so. I think it was more of showing an interest in seeing you around again, without having it be a date or anything with strings. I think if you go and say hi to him, then that's where he would do the asking out. And I think there is a pretty good chance og that if you go. Goodluck
~Sy.
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