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writes:Hi, Basically i was friends with a guy in my class from college, i really really liked him ad from what he did and the way he acted i think he felt the same. Also i was told by people that he liked me. Because things had got weird, he;d denyed liking me to my friend but then still acted like he did, i never confronted him about it and thought, as long as we;re friends im happy! Hes kinda the shy type of guy in some way he is and with others hes not. If he feels confident enough he will do something. But i thought if he wanted it to happen he would tell me however hes always been very different with me, we never used to talk much. He;d talk to me fine if we were alone like before the others in the class got there, he was the one to do the most talking as im abit shy and never know what to say to people. However when people walked in the room he'd finish what he was saying to me and then not talk anymore or if he did it was because he was telling everyone about something. Its always been a little odd. (some of the people in the class used to say stuff about us and didnt really like us being friends, they were just being stupid! and some of the stuff was way over the top!)So yeah outside college we were better than what we were at college, not the best but we were alot better!Please bare in mind he acted like he liked me all the way throuhg and many people saw how he acted and said he did, so no ones imagined anything.Well you see we've left college now, ive barely seen him or spoke to him. The thing is ive noticed whenever someone sends him a comment on his facebook he will reply even if there is no need to, even people hes not really friends with. However if i leave a comment or anything, even someting that he could reply to, he doesnt reply and theres nothing! Last time i saw him we were talking about something (private) and he said to me how im a great mate to him, hes said he loves me as a mate before! But seriously if i am a good friend to him shouldnt he reply or something? Its all very weird i think theres a reason for it. And tbh im wodnering if its because of what went off at college that could be contributing to this because he will talk to me on msn if i speak to him, he very very rarely starts that! Im just wodnering if theres any reason tis could be because its bothering me. in a way i think he hates me but thats all in my head. I dont know if its because of whats happened that he does this or anything. I cant actually talk to him about it im just trying to figure out what it could be. And as i say please dont get the wrong idea! Hes a lovely guy and i just wanna be friends with him! Im not after him or anything, thats all in the past. Thanks for your help!
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reader, MisVally +, writes (29 July 2009):
Dear Writer,
it appears like your friend is giving you mixed signals,on the otherhand he acts like he likes as more than just your friend and on the other he says he just wants to be friends. don't think that he hates you i think that if he does like he is just shy to tell you or talk to you about it as you said yourself he is a shy type of person. he probably doesn't want to admit that he likes you because hes afraid it might affect your friendship.
I can't say for sure if he likes you or not but hes behaviour and his actions around you hint that he might like you but if you want to know for sure i think you need to talk to your friend about it
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