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writes:I became to really close to a guy, best friends you could say. He says I'm one of the best people/friends he's ever known and he would do anything for me. I feel the same towards him. I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him and I think he might love me. We used to see each other every day and talked every day but lately he has been going through something. He sees a phychologist every other week and he has really bad negative thoughts. He believes in his MIND that he doesn't deserve anything or anyone. He is so gentle and kind and I feel bad for him. I'm not sure what to do to help him. I've tried being a positive part in his life but he doesn't believe he deserves me so he won't go near me. I miss him so much and want to help his life become positive but I feel like I will start feeling rejected soon which will turn my life negative. What do I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): Hi
I would back that it is easier for a bad apple to turn the good apple bad, than a good apple to turn an apple bad.
Be careful that he does not drag you down with him...save yourself first or you can not help him.
Maybe he does not want to be saved?
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