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writes:Ok, so last night by boyfriend was not sober and I went to his house this morning. I went into his bathroom and I saw a dildo on his shower, I didn't want to say anything about it cause I didn't want to embarrass him. I walked out of the bathroom and he walked in. After a few minutes went by I walked back into the bathroom to see if it was still there. It was not there any more so he had to have hid it. Me and my friend went there on our lunch break to find it and it was nowhere to be found. Finally, I found it and threw it away. Also all of our lube is gone! What do I do about this? Is my boyfriend bisexual?
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reader, love850 +, writes (29 January 2009):
Ok I dnt know what others might have said but I would ask?? Who really wants to go out with someone who could be cheating whether its with a girl or boy!! There are too many diseases in the world to sit around guessing if your significant other is cheating. Not knowing if your safe or not. Besides this is only going to play on your thoughts daily until you know for sure. Maybe he did use the lube from a hand job. But that still doesn't explain the dildo especially when he tried to hide it!! So just ask him!! ~Good Luck~
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): he may not be bi, he may just like anal play, he may not like anal play…he may have had another girl over…confront him about it…if he is bi tho…THREESOME!…if he likes anal play, it's only natural…for men their prostate(g-spot) is hit by going back there
i don't believe you threw it away! lol that's great…miss snoopy :p
hopefully he just likes it in the ass…b/c the other options would suck…
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reader, stellaforstar  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Hmmm that's a wierd one. You should confront him about the dildo. And the missing lube. But it might not neccessarily mean he's bisexual. The dildo could be the remnaints of a previous relationship - as gross as that is for you to think about. And the lube could be gone becuase if your boyfriend is anything like mine, he decided to A) muck about with it and squirt it at someone, or B) (the more likely) he give himself a posh handjob! Oh and if the dildo is his, it could even be that he just has a thing for anal. Not neccessarily men. But if he is bi, why should it bother you. He's with you. If he's cheating then fair play, be concerned but not if he's bi. Although, when i was younger i went with this guy who was bi (i didnt mind much) but he came out as being gay a few years later. I tell you, THAT wasn't much of a confidence boost.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (29 January 2009):
Some blokes just like to feel some thing up there. Some people recommend sticking a finger up a man's bum to increase his enjoyment of a blowjob.
Just because he enjoys that particular feeling, does not mean in any way that he is attracted to men.
That is a whole different ball game all together!
Just accept that he is with you but may like it if you were to explore that particular area of his anatomy.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Any chance there was another girl???
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (29 January 2009):
 well, to be honest i dont think you should have thrown it away. second off, dont do anything about it, if he wants to talk to you then he will, if he wants to tell ya, hey i like boys and girls, he will come to you. Maybe he just isnt ready to say anything yet, or maybe it wasnt his and he didnt want you to find it and think it was his so he hid it before you noticed and asked about it. Hun i dont mean to be rude or anything, but you shouldnt throw have thrown it out, and just i wouldnt bring it up, or say anthing. wait for him to tell you, he is clearly going through something and when he is ready he will talk to you.
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