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writes:I'm in love and I mean in love, I'm only 15 but I am honestly head over heels in love with I boy I have never met before I know it sounds so sad and pathetic but he means everything to me he is 19 and like I said I am only 15, we were waiting until I was 16 as it's wrong not to lol, but on Tuesday night we were being pretty normal although he was acting a bit moody and I told him I loved him and he asked me to stop saying it and I replied why? and he told me he didn't feel the same any more repeating it actually makes me feel so sick and he thought there was something missing, it hurt me so much but I asked him to meet me and we have arranged it for next Saturday to see if we work out but I don't want to love him any more.I have tried everything to get over him but I can't and he says it's really hard for him to let me go too, we fall out occsionaly but something always brings us back together. Do you think he could truly be my soultmate? ps. I know he's not anything werid as I know some of his family and he lives like 10 minutes away from me :) please help ! xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, shortstuff4789  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 ok first of all sweety i want to let you know that you probably dont love him. he is 3-4 years older than you hun. he has a different perspective on life, he has different priorities and different responsiblities. the reason you probably get back together is because he feels bad for leaving you and you probably want to be in what you think is an adult relationship. Trust me you dont need to be in a relationship with an adult especially at age 15. i was in the same situation at age 13 and i learned the hard way how wrong it was. my advice to you- find someone your own age with the same intrests,it will work out so much better. and let him go. i think he knows what is going on is not right. thats why he says it made him sick and he doesnt feel the same way any more. if he does love you and is your soulmate he will either wait for you or come back to you later... when your an adult. but dont commit yourself like that when you are so young. have you talked to your mom about how you feel?
sorry sweety i know its not what you want to hear
shortstuff4789
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