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writes:Ok, I recently met this great guy a few weeks ago, we hung out a few days together and talked almost each day. Now, he recently changed schools for a semester but is coming back once the term is over. Even though he's away, we still keep in touch with each other. I let him know I miss him and vice versa but sometimes I feel I get mixed signals. Sometimes he says he wants something serious, then the next day it's completely different. What are your thoughts on the situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): You say that this person is away for a while? Sometimes it is difficult to gage any real feelings when actual physical presence is unavailable. It may be the case that perhaps he realises that yes, he does miss you, but does not want to place all of his eggs in one basket so to speak and so is erring on the side of caution until he comes back. We're none of us mind readers and so there is no way that you'll know exactly what he thinks or feels but then that will be the same for him too, he'll only know what you tell him, so he my well be just as confused about the situation as yourself. If i were in your shoes i'd wait it out until he comes back, keep in contact with him on a platonic level until then so that you can perhaps pick up where you left off and not put any pressure on yourselves and see how things go?Good luck!
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