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*annahlucy
writes:Hi, I really fancy this boy who I've been friends with for a while now. He's 17 and I'm 14 and we have really intimate open conversations and I don't know if this is his way of flirting with me or if he's just really open with his conversations. He's sent me drunk texts and emails some of which have been quite horny. I want to ask if I should keep being friends of if I should try and say that I like him.My biggest fear is that he said that he doesn't want to go through the pain of anymore girlfriends (they've all cheated on him or lied to him about major things) n that he just wants to stay for the ride but not go through wth the commitment and i'm worried that if i say i like him that he'll use me. what should i do?
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reader, hannahlucy +, writes (4 January 2009):
hannahlucy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks tasteofindia, i guess i'm a really lousy judge of character, coz i thought he was different from the other guys that have hit on me(albeit drunk), and my bf who used me. besides the fact he's really lazy (which i detest)he's really sweet n everything, like i've said we've started a band n now i'm wondering if thats more of a curse than a blessing, but ahwell thanks for your advise all the same
hannahlucy xx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 You stay away from dating this guy. He is definitely the kind of guy who will add you to his "drunken booty call" list. If he doesn't want to commit to you, too bad for him, he misses out. Don't sell yourself short, sweetness, you are far too amazing and foxy to not have a guy devote all of himself to you.
There are tons of girls who will put out that he can use and recycle. Keep things classy, respect yourself and stick to friends only with him!!
Good luck, sweetness!! :o)
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