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36-40,
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writes:So I have this friend I've known for a few years. We're constantly in and out of one another's lives and most of our relationship is on the phone. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but we do a lot of flirting and seem to love tlking about having sex with one another. (That's how playfully we are.) We'll have two hour conversations once every month then he'll pull back for a few days and won't say anything to me. Then next thing I know my phone is going off and it's him being playful again. One minute he's hot the next he's cold. (typical virgo guy huh)If we're suppose to be friends why off and on. He'll let me in then draw back. He's constantly telling me I'm one of the coolest girls he's ever met and we have a lot in common.When we met we started out talking kissed and hung out together. He'd call all the time he even noticed when I wasn't at school. Once things got deep he pull back and got his girlfriend and acted like we weren't talking. I got over it and now he says I'm one of his best friends. I asked recently asked why didn't we go any further and he said I was too cool to loose...wtf?Why is he playing games?
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Hi, this 'relationship' you have is very much on his terms - he rings when he feels like it and expects you to be there and then ignores you when he is busy or having fun with his girlfriend.. he seems to like you but i think he likes the attention you give him more - i suspect he would be very jealous and childish if you had a boyfriend and ignored his calls. I wouldnt expect much more from him i think if he liked you in that way you would be his girlfriend and not her, stop hoping for more and dont let him use you and your conversations for a quick thrill. Sorry, I'm angry today! But i have been there and been used and on the outside looking in at someone else being used its frustrating! He is playing games because you are letting him - have him as a pal but dont have your actions centered around him..get a brilliant social life and dont be so available.. god what a long answer i'm sorry! But be a friend but dont be used!
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