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36-40,
*mootnezz
writes:I met a girl I have always liked right from childhood days at school. As we grew up everybody thought we looked good together and I thought so too. Just that she never gave me the chance. I knew she liked me too but just won't let it happen between us. We eventually split to different schools and locations and never met for a long time.A few days ago I met her and she was very excited to see me. I was excited too and immediately felt it for her again. As we talked, I found out that she was offering a course that I am soon to do so we exchanged numbers and she demanded that we meet before she left for school.We did meet today and talked at length. Before I left her place, I felt it was my last chance to tell her about my feelings because Ii would not be seeing her again for a long time. When I told her, she immediately asked me to cut off the topic because she had plans to get married to someone else soon. I made my point clear; that it was what I felt and so I did not care if she said NO. I just wanted her to know, then she quickly said goodbye and left.Honestly, if I had known that she was about to get married, I would not have told her so I felt bad after evrything that happened because I felt I had taken her for granted after the help she offered me with the course. I have apologised to her by text and she replied, saying it was normal but I still feel I have done something terrible and for that matter, I feel pretty bad but should I really be?
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reader, EmRaIrKiAe  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 No don't you didn't know there was someone else and you can't really help the way you feel about someone especially if you've liked her since you two were younger so don't feel bad but maybe for her sake don't get to close to her you might really screw up what she has going for her so maybe just leave it at that or be friends just not too close of friends.
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