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writes:HiI went to see a girl called Lucy, we said we loved each other and we talked about doing many sexual things however, we had a part at hers and I got with her best friend. It was the first time me and her friend met up. When she made the first move I said I loved Lucy however, within a few minuets we were making out and foreplaying.I dont know what to do?
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reader, NITRAM BLUE  +, writes (3 January 2009):
 "the thing is lucy is ok with it?"
It is never ok when a partner becomes unfaithful. Hell has no wrath for a woman scorned.
"when lucy an i met up she wouldn't hold my hand?"
Maybe she knows. There are no secrets that are not revealed specially when one of the participants is alive - Lucy's friend.
"however i haven't told her i regret what i did. should i?"
Honesty is the best policy. You made a mistake and it is for you to learn from it. If I were you, I would tell Lucy of what I did and show remorse. It is up to her how she would take it. Either good or bad, its there already. It is better for you to break the news to her than Lucy's friend or someone who heard about this. If she hears something about this from another person, that would be a shame on her part. Lastly, if Lucy breaks up with you which is around 95% sure, be prepared.
We make mistakes and from these mistakes, we become better individuals before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is lucy is ok with it?
when lucy an i met up she wouldn't hold my hand?
then when the party came her best friend came on to me, i said no i loved lucy, but within a couple of minuets of being under the dovet we were doing things. which i now kinda regret. lucy's friend is ok with the situation.
however i haven't told her i regret what i did. should i?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLucy doesn't mind?
its all a bit odd?
me an lucy wern't going out, we just talked about doing things. how ever when i saw her she wouldn't even hold my hand. I didn't know wt to do and then we had a party and her best friend came on to me, i told her i loved lucy and then after a few minuets of lying side by side under the dovay we started doing things, i now kinda regret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): don't go out with either of them.
Lucy would've been the one to go with, but you messed it up getting off with her BEST FRIEND.
that isnt good...
if ur a good looking guy, find someone else, and dont basically cheat on them.
good luck with being friends with Lucy again.
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