A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: So theres this girl that I have been friends with for atleast 3 years and we r best friends. All my other friends know I like her and they are always messin' with me about it. So one day, word got around our little group of friends and she found out, so I flipped. I called her, knowing that she didn't like me back, and told her that I didn't like her and just wanted to be friends, which was a lie.. but I didn't want to lose her. I like her soooooo much, its so weird. I can't stop thinking about her, and as much as I try, I can't move on. Please help me, I don't know what to do..
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reader, nokutenda +, writes (2 January 2009):
tell her you lied that you don't like her
tell her how you actually feel
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): hey bro i was in a sisituation similar to this one and what i did was tell my girl about it. i know you are feeling you do not want to lose her asa a friend but if you really like her then you should tell her about it. never lie to a girl also they hate that be honest. tell her the truth how you feel. if she doesn't feel the same way about you then go back to being friends. but then you know for yourself she doesn't feel the same about you so you can move on but if you stay secretly likely her then you'll never know if you will be together.
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