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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey,I'm an 18 year old girl that has never spent a lot of time thinking about boys. I have had a few short relationships and I know what love feels like, but I'm the type of girl that puts school first. To give you an idea.Now, some months ago I happened to cross paths with a boy who is two years older than I am and goes to university in the same city. He suggested to go for a drink sometime. I heard from him a week or two through text messages and then contact died until we finally made plans a few weeks ago. We both had a great time, it showed. We got a drink and watched some episodes of a series (cracked us both up). The next few days he sent me messages that certainly implied he likes me. Thing is I started studying for my exams in January, so we decided on meeting again after they were over (for the both of us). Now, since three days ago, I've hardly heard a thing from him and what I've heard I had to pull out of him, so to speak. Today, he basically just replied to my 'hello' and an hour later said he had to get going. I know three days seems like a very short period of time to pass judgement on. But the change seems huge; hard to understand perhaps, but I can't describe everything in detail, so please take my word for it. His attitude seems to have changed drastically. I know the easiest thing would be to ask, but we are just at a beginner's level here as you can see, and although I'm really wondering what is going on, I feel it would be weird to ask. I like what I've seen of him so far, but nothing more than that - yet.So my question is, what you make of all this. I am just really bad at reading good signs and perhaps I am reading too much into the bad ones. :-)
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY +, writes (3 January 2009):
 it seems asthough hes the first guy whose really made you think wow? but they are annoying creatures and us women as intelligent are we are will never quite figure them out - it definatley is not you its him, maybe he has met somone, maybe he cant handle a relationship right now.. but dont think its you, its guys they are weird - just say hello and be freindly when you see him, if he wants you he'll come and get you - and then its up to you if you will still want him as there are plenty of other guys out there!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): All boys are different, you will find a guy who is willing to show more intrest, but then again some guys gt shy for know reason so its best to just not worry about it
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